During what I call our traumatic stay of 2020 in AKL, they threatened to break in while my husband was on the toilet (we had received phone calls and been yelled at a bunch at this point because we really thought they were just trying to clean the room and we didn't want them to), so I closed the bathroom door and let them in, and they were VERY UPSET that the bathroom door was closed. I was like, dude, do you want to see my husband's junk that badly??? It looked like they actually considered it, but instead waited in our room for him to finish so they could get a look at the (now stinky
) bathroom. They made a point to check inside the shower and everything.
We stayed in Boardwalk Villas in 2021 (almost didn't, with how much they had harassed us daily during our AKL stay...) with no issues, and then one night before a cruise at AoA last year with no issues. The only real difference was that we had declined housekeeping in 2020 because, yknow, Covid, and I had also done virtual check-in that year and used DND sign whenever we were in the room.
Now I make sure to accept all housekeeping and check-in in person so they know I haven't been kidnapped by my own husband (I look really young for my age, thanks genetic lottery and sunscreen!). I also don't bother with the DND signs anymore, as I think it flags you and makes them need to see what you're hiding?
We also have problems at the airport with airport officials asking me if I know my husband/if I'm aware that he's following me, now that I'm thinking about it. I guess he has really bad RBF???? He doesn't look particularly older than me, either, so I dunno what we're doing to tick everyone's HT radars. Airports stress me tf out, so maybe I look scared haha.