Ever met someone with more than one girlfriend/boyfriend?

[Sheree Bobbins]

Interesting. Well, to me, it sounds like neither of the girls have all the qualities he desires so instead of looking for someone appropriate, he's settling for what he can get. I think he is selling himself short.

 

[Robinrs]

What kind of answers did you expect to get from a mostly married women message board??? Yikes! We're with the Mom!

I remember this kind of junk when I was young and dumb and in the NY dating scene. Your friend is "fronting", obviously parading his trophy dates to make himself look good. The girls must be very young and stupid to allow him to treat them like that. I don't blame the Mom and the Dad's reaction is typically male.

BTW, did YOU pat him on the baclk, too, UK???? Come on, fess up!

 

[UncleKyle]

Actually what scared his mom was how down to earth the girls were! They are of course bisexual, but one is in law school and the other is a pharmacy rep. Both very attractive, smart, outgoing women, one is 23 the other is 24. He's my, age 23. The girls basically live with him at his house and its just very weird because they act so normal about it, they go out to eat, movies, picnic, take road trips together and suprisingly he never parades them around at the bar scene or something like I would. And yes I had to pat him on the back, every guy I know did. A few of our friends think it's wrong but everyone else finds it intersting and weird because of how down to earth they are. It's like a real relationship except their are 3 of them!

 

[LScot]

Originally posted by UncleKyle
It's like a real relationship except their are 3 of them!

OK. Something about this sentence made me think of my ol' pal Moof.


Sounds like heartache for someone in the making to me Kyle. I'd never share you with anyone.

 

[onecoolmama]

I dated the same guy since I was 15. Since I am now 27..I think it is safe to assume I have never done this. However, I was in college and I went out with a girl and her BF. My bf (now DH) went to another college the first year. Anyway, I went out to dinner with him, just to hang out. The girl and I went to the bathroom, (I have never done this again you know how girls follow each other into the bathroom....well not me after this).

So what happened? We were in the bathroom and I said really causually, he is really good looking..hold on to him. Well, I then got a very indecent proposal from the two of them. She offered him to me and the I could...well, just use your imaginations!

YUCK!!! I was stunned. So I politely told them that I really wasn't in to that. I was only into mono hetero relatioships and I was spoken for.

Well, that was the last time I went as a thrid wheel too.

Again...YUCK!!!

 

[Mad4Mickey]

I dated 2 guys at the same time and did it for a long time . They never met . But they did know about eachother. DH won out and I married him . They other guy is still a friend .