Ever feel...

[Babyjustrun]

Guilty or ashamed for really silly/stupid reasons?

I've been feeling this way a lot lately.
At Easter I finally gave into buying an Ipod, and felt horrible for the entire Easter break because I loved my Zen, and I hadn't bought a charger for it that long ago.
I got over it, I'm really over it now.
But today, I moved into my brothers room because he's officially staying in Ottawa, and he needs his bed and stuff.
But I feel really guilty. I now have this huge room, and my tiny room is empty. And I can't imagine not waking up in that turquoise room, I can't imagine there not being clothes all over the floor, etc.
I'm not allowed to have my current room messy because my dog has to sleep with me when my parents go on vacation. My room is going to feel like it's not mine for a long time.
I really want this feeling to go away. I know I'll get over it, I will, but I'd like to get over it now.

Anyways, so anybody ever get like this?

 

[JulielovesDisney]

I feel the same way! I moved into my brother's room when he moved out for good, and I felt really, really weird about it too. It was very weird for me not to wake up in my bright orange room. My room faced east, so I always had bright sunshine to wake me up, and I loved it so much. So for a few weeks, I was debating on whether I should move back to my old room or not. But I decided to stay. You'll eventually start feeling good about your move.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Mm, my bed used to be in a kitty?(I don't know what my parents called it, but it's at an angle) corner. So I got a lot of sunlight towards me.
Now, only the bottom of my bed get sunlight. It was almost impossible to position my bed beside a electrical plug, so that on the other side of it would be my shelf. I needed my shelf beside my bed because that's where my alarm is.

Moving out is not an option for me. It took all day to get in there, my parents would be ridiculously mad if I decided otherwise. I only move out if I don't hold up the keep the room clean bargain.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I have detachment issues.
I am supposed to move into my brothers room soon, but I just cant bring myself to do it.
Even though his room is "better" i still NEED to be in my room, with its ugly paint, and freaky messes.
I love it.

I have de-attachment issues with EVERYTHING.
My room is a clutter with things I dont "need" but im afraid if i give them up then I wont have anything to remember people by.
For example :
I had a bottle in my room for 5 years (...until my mom threw it away) that I got when my uncle died, outside the vending machines at the funeral, I wasnt thirsty so i didnt open it up, but.. I.. couldnt throw it away, it was like my uncles spirit was..there-ish?
I couldnt describe it but its was this overwhelming feeling of "I have to keep it"

 

[Babyjustrun]

I'm bad pack rat.
I don't throw things out. I had a water bottle in my room (it was half full) from August until like halfway through March when my mother decided to try to clean my room.
There's stuff like that.
Stuff I've had since I was a kid.
And things I never use, but refuse to throw out because I have the mindset of 'Someone paid good money for that'.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

I have detachment issues.
I am supposed to move into my brothers room soon, but I just cant bring myself to do it.
Even though his room is "better" i still NEED to be in my room, with its ugly paint, and freaky messes.
I love it.

I have de-attachment issues with EVERYTHING.
My room is a clutter with things I dont "need" but im afraid if i give them up then I wont have anything to remember people by.
For example :
I had a bottle in my room for 5 years (...until my mom threw it away) that I got when my uncle died, outside the vending machines at the funeral, I wasnt thirsty so i didnt open it up, but.. I.. couldnt throw it away, it was like my uncles spirit was..there-ish?
I couldnt describe it but its was this overwhelming feeling of "I have to keep it"

I do the same thing. I have so many random things that NOBODY can throw out because it has some memory attached to it. Like my first tennis racquet that broke during a game (snapped at the handle randomly, cheap thing!) I kept it in my room, out of the way, intending to hang it on the wall one day. But my mom threw it out one day while I was at school. I didn't speak to her for days because I was so mad at her.

 

[Boomer1]

lol im a somewhat pacrat but im also someone who needs everything clean and in place. lol i still have this tinkerbell chocolate sucker thing that i got in the gingerbread house at the grand floridian in WDW. i wanted to keep it for a while just so i could look at it and i kept putting it off bc it was too pretty. its sitting up in my spinning pencil holder thing. I never put it near the window for fear it will melt. ahh lol

try putting some of your things in the same places they were in your room in your new room. ( if you can) and try to start thinking of it as Your room not your brothers room. having the right mindset may help thing enojoy your new room!

 

[pigletgirl]

Sometimes!

 

[BabyPiglet]

I feel that way a lot.

 

[HDD]

I feel that way a lot.
I feel guilty when my parents buy me something.
I feel even guiltier when someone gives me a gift, I usually feel pretty bad when people give me gifts like on my birthday. I don't even like people wishing me happy birthday.