Ever feel like this?

BabyPiglet

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I'm not depressed, really! I've just noticed something lately and I was wondering if anyone felt the same.

I noticed that (besides my family) I've really never had someone who truly, deeply loved me. Ya know, someone who really really cared about you? Someone who would do anything to protect you and to make you happy?

Maybe I've been watching too much TV (actually, I know I have.) But it's a sad thing to notice that nobody has ever really just cared for you that much.

Not even friends really. I'm mean I'm sure my friends enjoy my company, but I feel that they wouldn't move mountains for me. Ugh, how selfish sounding.

My family cares, of course. But........ya know? Anyone know what I mean?

I guess I'm just waiting for someone to come along and sweep me off my feet.
 
I was just thinking the same thing today. Like, almost word for word.
I mean, sure, I have friends who care about me, but not, like, truly deeply hugely care about me.

I just want a permanent fixture in my life who's not family.
Lifelong friend, love interest.. I don't care. Just someone.

I know exactly what you mean.
 
:hug:

I've been feeling sort of the same way lately.
I'm not one to be bothered by it, but it's been tapping me on the shoulder lately.
I talk to my friends and I have fun, but I do all these things for them and when I ask for something they just let me fall and seem like they could care less wether or not I'm happy.
I do have a friend I always look to talk to, and she's great, but we are not that close. We hardly ever talk about what's bugging us in person, and just talk mostly on msn.
I don't have a best friend, and I'm almost positive that I'm not the best friend to anyone.
 

:hug:
:flower3:

wow i haven't really thought about i've just been caught up in my own world day dreaming
 
Constantly.
I always feel this need to be loved.
And all I REALLY want before I die, is to find someone who truly loves me, and I truly love back. And this consumes, my thoughts, simply because I watch too much television and movies.
And well, most of the stuff I watch has romantic ties...
 
I know EXACTLY what you mean.
My friends say they "love" me but, its one of those "I luv yuh, now give me a bit of that choco bar".

Theres 1 friend that I know of, that I would die for.
The rest, Im not quite sure.
No matter what he seems to do to me, no matter how badly he hurts me, I would jump off a cliff for him.

No one would ever do that for me though.
 
i have that all the time--its pretty normal. it'll pass eventually, just give it some time :hug:
 
:hug:

This past year has been a huge test for me. As you know, I ended up going to a different high school than all of the kids I grew up with. The ones I still talk to are the ones who have always been there for me in my hour of need. Sure, last year I left a lot of people I considered friends behind, but in the shuffle of life, we've lost touch with each other.

The ones that didn't talk to me while I was busy and adjusting to my new school are the ones who were there when I finally called them in tears. They forgave me and we're back to normal.

If that's not love, I don't know how love should be defined.
 
God loves you and cares about you!

I know but you have to remember that not everyone believes in God. :goodvibes

I also think that people want a physical person to love them, not just a God that they might believe in.
 
yes.
i feel that way alll the time.

i have friends that feel that way.
but no relationship/friendship things like that.
 
I feel like that all the time.
All those TV shows and movies with the cute in love couple,
It always make me want to find that one guy to just say those cute things to me and sweep me off my feet.
And my friends, yes i have some really close ones but its not to a point where they would jump off a cliff.
 
Constantly.
I always feel this need to be loved.
And all I REALLY want before I die, is to find someone who truly loves me, and I truly love back. And this consumes, my thoughts, simply because I watch too much television and movies.
And well, most of the stuff I watch has romantic ties...
I know, it seems like all the guys on TV are so protective and loving.

In reality you're lucky to find a guy who cares about anything other than football.
 
I feel that nobody cares me about. Like me and my friend kelsi were talking one day and said how much we watned to get out of this crappy place. But the sad part is, nobody would miss us:(

:hug: for you BabyPiglet
 


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