I am having my reception at Citricos, and although I haven't booked yet, and can't until my 180 day mark (1st Nov), I have already spoken to Lee, one of the managers. He was very helpful and quick to answer all my enquiries. I am making my own menus to match my other stationary, and Lee has said his staff will be happy to put these out for me, along with my favours. We will be having a long table (there will be 16 of us) and I will provide a plan of where I want people to sit, and do individual favour tags to act as placecards. I will deliver all this to Citricos the day before our VR. People will have the whole menu to choose from, however, despite my printing my own. I am also going to pay on the day with my cc. However, I do know that Citricos has a larger party menu (for over, I think 16 people) which you may be able to pay in advance. We decided against this as we are only 16, 3 of which are children
I am sure that you will be okay in 'Chef Mickey's' in your wedding attire. It is only in the theme parks that you (officially) cannot wear it!!
I also like '1900 Park Fare' for a character buffet. Be aware, however, that all character buffets can get crowded and noisy!!! If you were dining at 1900, you could have piccie taken at the beautiful GF - IMHO an added bonus!!!! HTH