When it comes to keeping an open mind, I like to talk about two park differences that drive this point home.
First (always first, it seems) is the DL castle. Sleeping Beauty's castle at DL. It is about 1/3 the height of the MK castle and that seems to be a big and immediate downer for WDW vets. But why? Because WDW vets think there should be a big castle a the end of the Main Street. Why do they think that? Because that is what MK has.
I remember going to DL in 1966 when I was 3 years old. And what I remember from
every single DL trip I made as a child was driving up to DL and looking for...what? The castle? Heck no! We looked for the Matterhorn! The first Disney mountain anywhere anytime! My family and many others like us made it a sort of contest to see who could see the Matterhorn first as we approached the park. None of us ever gave a moment's thought to the castle. The Matterhorn is a real mountain in the Alps of course, and at DL it is
supposed to be taller than the castle. Who ever heard of a castle taller than a mountain?
It is equally valid for a DLR vet to go to WDW and enter MK and be immediately disappointed with the lack of a mountain next to the castle and, in the process, fail to appreciate the grandeur of Cinderella's castle there.
Second, you will find out that DL has rides in the "wrong place". To a WDW vet, Splash Mtn is about in the right place at DL. But BTMRR and HM are both kind of swapped and in the wrong place. But wait! Splash Mtn, BTMRR and HM were
all build first at DL. Then later at MK. Well then, it stands to reason that MK is the park with the rides in the "wrong" place.
When you can step back and laugh about it, realize that many things you are accustomed to at WDW may be copies of DL. So do not judge DL as feeling "off". You need an open mind, yes. But moreover, you need to embrace the differences. When you do that, you will be in a better mindset to really see the magic at DLR. If you are constantly having to fight a feeling of "DLR is off somehow" you are more likely to miss something about DLR that really outshines WDW. And, yes, there are a number of areas where DLR just hands down is better than WDW. And vice versa!
