ds(6) was assigned to the wrong bus today!

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First day of school today and ds was on the wrong bus home! I waited at the bus stop only to find out that ds was not on the bus! he teacher assigned him to the wrong freakin bus!!!!! Poor little guy stayed on the bus the whole time and at the end of the route the driver asked where he lived...A.J. told him his address but the driver could not bring hime home...brought him back to the school. I can not even begin to tell you what occured between the time I was at the bus stop and the time he was found! That was the scariest 25 minutes of my life! Thank god dh was at the school when the bus returned...they were telling him to go to another school where kids are dropped off in these situations and he was just getting into his car to go there! Thank god my 6 yr old was smart enough to stay on the bus and not get off at a strange stop due to nerves! All I could picture was my baby walking around in a strange neighborhood lost, scared and in danger!

Why????

Kim
 
Oh my gosh! How scary for you and your little one. I'm glad he made it home safe and sound.
Does he, the school and his teacher now know the correct bus so this doesn't happen again?
 
Unfortunately, I have heard a lot of stories of that in my area in the last couple of years. My son is in pre-K this year, for which bus service is not provided, but I don't think I am going to let him take it next year. I'd rather find someway to get my work schedule rearranged so that I can drive him to school.
 
My sister once forgot to get off the bus! We had recently moved to a new area and the bus was coming from a different direction (the other direction) then she was used to and she didnt recognize the house. It was the first day of 6th grade but it was still super scary. My dad went driving around to look for her and he got lost too :rolleyes:
 

What a nightmare! I'm glad everything worked out in the end.

The same thing happened to my DS last year when he was in kindergarten. Although, it was the fault of the daycare because they were supposed to pick him up. What do they do? They told him to go on another bus where it drops him off at a school where he's never been. Why did they do this? Who knows. My DW and I were so frigtened and pissed that we gave that bus driver from the daycare an earful. Because of it, she got fired. Am I the least bit remorseful? Heck no! She deserved it!
 
I got on the wrong bus when I was 6 years old, too. 31 yrs later I can remember it so vividly. Very traumatizing. I had been out of school for two weeks to have my tonsils out. During that time our bus number was changed . My older brother was supposed to find me after school to make sure I got on the right bus. He "forgot". So I got on the one I thought I was supposed to, then got off where I thought I was supposed to. Wrong on both accounts. I started chasing after the bus and screaming, and luckily the driver saw me. She drove around until we found my mom. A very scary ordeal.

So glad everything worked out ok for your boy. I know exactly how he feels.
 
:grouphug: So glad you son is ok :grouphug:

I too got on the wrong bus. We had just moved to Mississippi from NJ and I was starting 4th grade. I had never been on a school bus before (had always rode my bicycle to school).

I remember getting on the bus to go home, but didn't know where to get off. I just sat there watching everyone get off the bus until it was just me, the driver and her daughter. She called me up to the front and asked my name and address. I gave her my name but had no idea of my address (I literally moved there two days before school started). I gave her my phone number but no one answered there... latch key kid here.

Well this was in good ol Vicksburg, MS where things are done a little less formal. She ended up taking me home with her I had dinner with her family. This was before answering machines. So, my parents figured I was just at home waiting for them to get home. They got home and probably went crazy when I wasn't there.

The driver finally got ahold of my parents and she drove me home. It was a little scary at first, but ended up being kinda fun! At least I didn't have to sit home alone all that time :)
 
OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :earseek: It's odd Kim. I had this feeling I needed to call you thus afternoon to see how AJ did today but figured you'd be real busy...........little did I imagine!! :guilty: How's he doing?

:grouphug:
 
I know how you feel. My DD, while in kindergarten did not get off at her stop, got off on the wrong one, and some stranger drove her home... :scared1:

I have since worked for our school district transportation department. Let me say this: THAT IS ONE TOUGH JOB!! Both for the teachers and the drivers...I know it is scary when your child could be lost and scared, but it is also very difficult the first few days of school, corralling all those kids to the proper busses.

Does your school have them wear necklaces with the color of the bus on it? Ours match the same colored school bus in the window of the bus. They teach the kids to match them up, it really helps.
 
Oh my gosh...how awful!!!!

Down here they post all the bus routes and the expected pick up and deliver times on the school system website. Then when they have open house the night before school starts the teacher goes over each list with the parent to double check the bus number and then the parent writes the bus number down on their bus list and name tag. They also make a seperate list of your address,bus number and any special arrangements for the first few days. For example some parents want their child to ride the bus but the first couple of days they will be car pick-up so they make a note of this so that the child is not mistakenly put on the bus. Also when they make their nametags they have the bus number written down and the parent confirms that it is the right number.
 
That is a frightining time. I'm so glad it worked out Kim.

Once a friends son didn't get off with his brothers. His brothers never noticed that he didn't get off. My friend was busy and didn't meet them at the door. It took about 10 minutes before she realized that he wasn't there. Called transportation and they radioed the bus driver who found him sleeping. It never happened again of course.
 
Oh my goodness, Kim! What a week you are having!

I'm so glad he was found safe and sound. :)

Once when Cam was in Kindergarten he was talking to friends on the bus and didnt realize they were at his stop. The bus stopped, a few kids got off and it started up again. My heart sank, like Im sure yours did today. Luckily a few seconds later the bus stopped again and opened the door for Cam. I cant tell you what a feeling that was, so I can only imagine how horrible it must have been for you wehn DS really didnt get off. :earseek: Yikes!
 
Thanks for the support guys!

A.J. did not make the mistake...his teacher assigned him to the wrong bus!!! He was suppose to be on bus #34 but she had him on #54. They do have the tags like mentioned but his tag was wrong! She also had his tag saying that the morning bus was #82 not #28!!!! A.J. went exactly where he was told to go and that is what upset me the most...he did not make a mistake, he did not miss his stop etc. etc. etc!!! I could understand it a whole lot more if he got confused but that is not the case...I have his necklace that has the wrong info on it!!! (please do not think that I am angry at any of the replies/explanations...that is not the case AT all...I am completely frustrated with the school and teacher) I know mistakes happen but with a 6 yr old little boy on his first day back to school it's a bit hard to swallow! I am just thankful that he did not panic and get off the bus because he was scared...I might be still out there looking for him!


I just gave him the biggest hug when I put him to bed..I didn't want to let go! :guilty:

Kim
 
I still can not think straight so here is a copy of a letter my dh wrote to our local newspaper...it expalins things much better!:

"I'm writing to tell you about my son's first day of school. He just started first grade today and my wife and I couldn't wait to greet him at the bus stop to see how his day went. Except when the bus pulled up my son was not on it. When my wife asked one of his friends if she had seen A.J. she said that she saw him get on bus 54 instead of 34. It was a good thing for that information because it turned out to be more than we could get from the bus driver, the school, or the bus dispatcher.

Apparently he was assigned the wrong bus at school. When we attempted to call the bus dispatcher we got nothing but busy signals. My wife continued to try to call the bus company while I jumped in my car and headed to Flagg St. School. When I was let into the office I asked what they had done with my son. I told them what I knew, and that I believed he was on bus 54. The Principal seemed very concerned, but another woman in the office was very cavalier in stating that there's nothing to worry about. When this happens, she explained, the kids are dropped off at Elm Park. That's right! Elm Park! That was supposed to calm me down I guess.

I continued to call the bus company and finally got through, only to be given another number to call. At that point I decided to head to Elm Park, all the while attempting to contact the dispatcher. As I was about to get into my car I saw a bus pull into the lot. There was a very handsome little boy standing right next to the driver pointing to me and my car. I ran to get him and there around his neck was his bus tag which read number 54 on it. My 6 year old son had done everything right, he got on the bus he was told too, and he didn't get off it (thank God). I told him how very proud I was of him and gave him a big hug.

After I returned home with him, my wife called the school again to try to get an explanation as to how this occurred. She was told by the principal that it was a mistake made by the teacher. He was very nice and very apologetic, but I still have a few concerns. If the policy is to drop kids off at Elm Park why was my son not brought there? Why is it that even though my son knows his address he could not be brought home? Why is it impossible for not only me, but for the school, or another bus driver to communicate with the bus dispatcher? Is our children’s safety an exercise in trial and error? I know it’s the first day of school and mistakes can happen, but I remember hearing last year about multiple incidents of this type. I think parents need to know that the school department and bus companies have done absolutely nothing to deal with this problem."

Well said!
 
Oh, I'm so sorry! I got tears in my eyes thinking about how your little guy (and you) must have felt!
You will have to give him lots of extra TLC these next couple of days. I got lost in a store for just a few minutes once when I was 6 and I vividly remember how traumatizing that was, and how good it felt when my mom gave me lots of extra hugs and reassurance after that!
 
My 5 year old DD fell asleep on the bus on the way home last year. I understand it's common with Kindergartners who are tuckered out after a full school day. Of course, that was one of the days I was returning late from my own classes at the local technical college. I caught up with the bus just as it stopped at our stop ... but NO CELIA! I followed it for 3 more stops before they woke her up and returned her to her regular stop.

I'm from a small city, so I am wondering what writing a letter to the local newspaper does for you except venting your spleen? Doesn't that make more trouble for your kid now that the teacher and school administration has been embarrassed publicly?
 
Hopefully it will create better checks and balances in those situations. If her town had a system like mine this never would have happened
 
Same thing happened to me on the first day of first grade. We had sixth grade buddies that helped us to our bus and mine apparently couldn't read numbers very well and led my firend and I to the wrong bus.

I can't believe they teacher made that big of a mistake with you're son though!!
 
That happened to my oldest DS during an early dismissal for snow. He got on the wrong bus I was petrified. The school finally found him and he came home about an hour late.

I feel your pain. I am sorry this happened to your and your son. :grouphug:
 


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