grinningghost said:
I love to plan, but I also love to wing it a little. As the years go by, I notice more people have every meal and every day planned to the minute.
I like to leave a couple days open to do whatever comes up.
Anyone else wing it some?
May 2005 was my first trip to WDW since 1993, and back then I had no idea that planning was in any way helpful. Needless to say, I've "converted" since then.
HOWEVER ...
We totally winged it for our May 2005 trip with our two pre-schoolers. I made ADRs (then called PSs) for dinner each day, but used only one of them (plus Hoop Dee Doo).
In about four months leading up to that trip, I filled just about every non-working and non-parenting waking moment filling my head and heart with all things WDW. I asked questions and read answers on this board and others, hit lots of other informative websites, and read the Unofficial Guide more closely and more passionately than Donovan McNabb and Tom Brady read their playbooks.
I emerged with a Ph.D. in WDW.

I knew it all,
at least on paper. I had an encyclopedic knowledge of recommended "best days" for parks and attractions (and more importantly, WHY those recommendations were made by others), what sorts of things to do at certain times of the day, the layouts of each park and logical strategies for doing things, etc.
Each day, Sunday through Saturday, we had no pre-planned agenda for what we HAD TO do on what day, except for our pre-paid Hoop Dee Doo reservations. I was totally able to go with the flow and pursue whatever whim we wanted. When I made my PSs, I just totally guessed what park we might be at on what day, but it was total guesses, and I was usually wrong. This wasn't a problem for us because we're usually happy grabbing counter service meals, anyway, not having to conform to an exact schedule or exact appointment.
Because of my months of fun study, I was able to guide us through a week of both efficient AND care-free fun in WDW. My knowldege of the EMH schedule and parade and fireworks schedules allowed me to guide us towards and away from certain places at certain times, but for the most part our 5 year old, our oldest, decided what parks on what days either the nightr before or first thing in the morning. Once we were at a particular park, I was able to craft a fun, efficient, non-commando touring plan. That it itself was fun for me, not work at all.