My ds goes to a small Catholic school. This Friday, the money for our first mandatory, yes mandatory, fundraiser is due. We have three that are required. We have to sell calendars ( the kind for raffles) 10 for $10, for a total of $100. We also have to participate in the $10,000 dinner (a raffle ticket is $100), and we have to also sell $100 worth of stuff for Spring. If you do not, your tuition is increased by $300. So, I guess you technically have a choice, I'm writing checks one way or the other.
The non-mandatory fundraisers include Thanksgiving pies, Parents Night Out, Touch a Truck, Halloween Party, Breakfast with Santa, Luau, Uniform Tag Days (this is actually good, they use the $ for field trips and I don't have to iron), selling candy/wrapping paper/useless junk and Italian Night. It's insane! Obviously, some are targeted just to certain ages (not alot of 8th graders at Breakfast w/Santa), but still...
We do not have to fundraise for ds's sports, so I guess I should count myself lucky. We pay $40 for each sport, and he gets a t-shirt and trophy at the end of the year.
Last year, they needed extra $ for a field trip, so they sold cookie dough. This stuff was $20/box, and they were all supposed to sell at least 5 boxes. No, it wasn't the Taj Majal, they were just going to the Museum of Science!
I can't imagine what we would do if we had more than 1 child. If I had the option, I would rather write one check at the beginning of the year for $500. I would come out ahead!
On a side note, I do have to say that with all this $, we recently rehabbed the vacant convent next to the school, and the kids have a cafeteria, science lab, computer lab, and chapel. The money is put to good use -- I would just rather write a check than deal with buying junk, 'cause I'm not about to ask anyone else to buy it!