Hi Nick, I see the point in your example, but think that even that example is subject to interpretation. I think we have beat the dog enough; let's leave it at "you have a stricter view on the subject than I."
Back to some semblance of the topic...
Spending lots of money for invitations...The manufacturer of said Disney invitations pays a lot for the Disney Commercial License. They are also Brand name Invitation makers (Stationers), and any time the word "Wedding" is added, the price skyrockets. This gets us back to the overly sensitive area of "Why did I have to pay so much and you not have to" Well, You get what you pay for. Wedding invitations printed on a PC are a whole lot cheaper than professional ones. Are they anywhere near as nice? NO!!!!!
If you want to do a pseudo Disney wedding on the cheap you can, there is no doubt about it to me.
If you want to spend $20,000 you can do it as well.
Personally, after chatting with you a bit I think Jezabelle mentioned you live in Celebration and could use a park there free or next to that. You could invite some friends over and make it a little more traditional. If I recall She said it was your first wedding and not hers. I wouldn't want to compete or be compared to her first go around!
So to answer the original question...Yes, I think you could get away with it, but do you really want to!!!
PS, I was not really upset by your tone, I was just noting it more than anything