For us the Dining package is a no-brainer. We spend an average of $125.00 for food, for our family of four. Some days less, some a little more. We eat at least one sit down meal/day, and sometimes 2, if one is an early breakfast. We don't always get dessert or appetizers either, both of which are included, so it appears we will get more food, less $$
Many of our favorite restaurants, are on the plan, and many of the new ones we want to try were to. We looked over the menus, on Deb's site, and found the dining plan to be a savings for our meal choices.
You need to decide what types of meals you will be eating, and go from there. Also the ages of your kids will factor in. My oldest will be 9, so is still considered a kid for the plan. I might rethink, if she cost me $35/day.
Good luck planning, and welcome to the DIS. This site is awsome. You will learn more than you thought possible.
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