We took our kids, DS 6 and DD almost 4, and they liked it. I don't remember them being scared of anything. We sat dead center in the upper level. The seats were great but if we went again I think we'd try to sit on the lower level close to the stage so the kids could see the performers faces. Of course some people say those seats force you to look up and hurt your neck. I admit that I did get some candy for when DD got a little restless but both kids did great. I think if she'd used to going to movies and sitting through WDW shows she should be fine. I think the show's about an hour and a half (can't remember exactly). Have fun!