Do you hold grudges?

[JulielovesDisney]

Do you tend to hold grudges when you get into an argument, or get hurt by someone, etc?

 

[Sparx]

well, i don't stay angry about it, but i don't forget it.

 

[WDWtraveler27]

I dont.....it happened...its over....were still cool

 

[JulielovesDisney]

I do. But it's weird. Like I won't be straight up mean or nasty to the person, but I won't be my usual self. I'll keep what they did in the back of my mind for a little bit.

 

[Sparx]

I do. But it's weird. Like I won't be straight up mean or nasty to the person, but I won't be my usual self. I'll keep what they did in the back of my mind for a little bit.

i guess thats what i do too. i mean, i forgive them, but i won't forget what they did, and i'll be more on guard for them to do it again.

 

[SKJA124]

sometimes subconsciously I will, but yeah I'd be pretty much over it, although I would never forget that it happened.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Someone would have to do something really bad for me to keep being angry about it.
But I do hold grudges in the sense that I'm not forgiving them for what they did and they can't change that. But it depends on the situation. I hold grudges, but not A LOT of grudges.

 

[PosessedEeyore]

Depends.

 

[I Am What I Am]

I'm not angry but I'm not going to forgive and forget.

I only have this with one person and he had a LOT of chances given to him.

 

[OneTreeHill]

It depends.
Most of the time, I'll forgive you, but not forget.
There is one case in particular that I refuse to forgive. I just can't.
But mostly, I do forgive.

 

[disney100666]

I do. But it's weird. Like I won't be straight up mean or nasty to the person, but I won't be my usual self. I'll keep what they did in the back of my mind for a little bit.

 

[PigletGurl]

Yes. I'm stubborn. I forgive them eventually, though.

 

[BabyPiglet]

If it's really bad, then I do hold grudges. If it's just something simple like an argument, then no, I don't.

 

[WDWtraveler27]

If its something big then yes...I havent talked to my ex best firned since the begining of the 8th grade

 

[mherzlovesdisney]

i hold a grudge for like an hour than i fogive and forget
except one perticular cause that it has taken me 7 1/2 years to get over but we are cool about it now

 

[::Snow_White::]

For a few days, but I'm not all "omgdon'ttalktome". I'm just more quiet around them and think about what they did. I never forget anything but it's hard to stay mad at someone for more than a week.

 

[life of the party]

i forgive but dont forget .
i hate being in fights with people & drama and stuff so i eventualy just let it go , but i wont trust you as much . i always keep what happened in the back of my mind .

 

[imabrat]

No. I forgive, but I most certainly don't forget. I may no longer be buddy buddies with that person, but I do act civil. If they don't want to act civil, that's their prerogative.

 

[Disney Dork]

I won't start ignoring, plotting my revenge or being purposely rude to anyone, but I won't forget what they've done.

 

[life of the party]

omg sonya were twins!