Do you get intimidated easily?

leahannpen

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I do with some people. There is one person who calls my place of work and she just...gets to me. She's got this attitude and right away I'm on alert. Then, of course, I'm not "on top" of my game, so if anything's going to go wrong, it'll be when I'm talking to her. :rolleyes:

I just HATE that feeling. Am I the only one?
 
I get worried if I have hurt someone else. But intimidated...no.

I laughed when I read this...my friends always say I am the last person to mess with. So, I might be intimidating.
 
Yep.....then I get flustered and depending on my mood could end up crying! Arggg!
 
I guess it depends on what you mean by intimidated. :) If I were to meet Eric Clapton or Tom Hanks or Linda Ronstadt or someone I might be intimidated, but probably more intimidated or fearful because I would feel shy, not anything they would do to me. :p

I used to work with a guy who was a nutcase who became my stalker ... he was obsessed with me :crazy2: and that and he was very ntimidating. :eek: :(

Nutcase road rage people are intimidating! :eek:

Having a cooperating teacher fill out a report about my student teaching can be intimidating! :eek:

Having to work with a pompous blow hard? No way. :p I'd pretend I didn't hear her and make her repeat everything. ;) :p
 

Yes, but I am getting better :-) When I first moved here from Canada my husband was always telling me to toughen up or I would get eaten alive. He is from NYC and the difference between us is vast in this respect.
 
There is only one person at work that intimidates me. Until one day I was talking to him on the phone. I was having a bad day and he snapped at me and I snapped back at him. He hasn't snapped at me since. Of course, I told my boss what had happened and told me don't worry about it.
 
Nope, don't get intimidated at all. I guess years ago I might have but for some reason, something snapped in my head and have never been since.
 
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A few years ago, I was extremely easy to intimidate ~ so, I know exactly how that feels. People would scream in my face (it's beyond me why anyone thinks they have the right to treat someone else that way :rolleyes: ), and I would basically have a panic attack. I'd start to shake, and without my even thinking about it, the tears would be rolling in minutes :sad1:, and I'd never say a word back to them. The tears were actually more of an anger response - I still react that way when I'm angry ~ in fact, I cry more often out of anger than out of sadness. Funny thing is though when you seem like you're intimidated, people try to intimidate you even more :( . I'm completely different now, I don't take that kind of treatment from anyone. I'd say I'm pretty much the complete opposite of "easily" intimidated now - I won't say I don't get nervous, of course I do, but it takes a lot ::yes::. I still get the same feeling ~ I say it feels like too much air around my heart and in my stomach, while the blood rushes to my head ;) ~ that I used to when someone gets in my face - I just use it differently now. Strangely enough, it seems as though since I've been more difficult to intimidate, people rarely try to intimidate me.
 
Not by "everyone," but I can be quite easily intimidated by people in a position of authority or whom I perceive as authority figures, depending.

My spouse works on me to get to me to stand up for myself sometimes. It doesn't come easy for me. If someone is inclined and knows how to, I can be reduced to a slobbering mess in a fetal position or some such thing.

And I can't believe I just admitted that on a public BB of all places. :rolleyes: :o

Ah, well, it's true, so I best acknowledge it rather than run away from it. At least that way maybe I'll be more willing to address it in my life and work at changin' it.
 
As a sorta aside, what has always amazed me is the times when I've heard someone was intimidated by....me. :eek: If they only knew, LOL. :p
 
Originally posted by Disney Doll
The older I get, the less easily intimidated I am.

Agree. Nope... and confidence comes with age.
 
No, not really. I really try to be on my best behavior. I can be a "hot head" and sometimes that makes me nervous, not because I'm scared of them but I'm scared I won't shut my big mouth.
 
Originally posted by mommytutu
No, not really. I really try to be on my best behavior. I can be a "hot head" and sometimes that makes me nervous, not because I'm scared of them but I'm scared I won't shut my big mouth.

This is me. I always have about 5 other very rude comments to make to someone that fly through my head, before I can give a tactful response.
 

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