The first home my DH and I bought, we had to escrow. When we sold that home 10 years later, we learned that the bank had a $3,000 "escrow reserve", beyond what the normal tax payments were. I believe laws have changed now and banks can't keep such a large reserve, but back in the '90's (when this took place) $3,000 was a huge sum of money to a young family - and it still is a large sum of money to just have sitting in a mortgage company's accounts! There was no interest paid on the extra escrow cushion, either.
We were fortunate enough to put down over 20% on our next home, and also our present home. Therefore, we do not escrow. I will not have a mortgage company holding on to my money, as if I am some child that won't pay my bills on time.
We do get tax refunds, even though we have the paychecks set up where you would think we would break even at the end of the year. However, living where we do, in Ridiculously High Property Tax Town of Northern IL, we always have a refund. If we didn't own our home, I do not believe we would receive a refund.
I do know, after our experience with escrow in the '90's, we won't ever have a mortgage with escrow. Heck, after our children finish college and we are sure they will not be living with us anymore

, we will be moving south and downsizing, so hopefully no more mortgage!
