I'm so sorry to hear this, Tiggerholic - not only because you won't be able to go, but, more importantly, because I'm sure you're very concerned about your dad. There will always be other DLR Halloween Time trips.
Are you sure you can't get any of the money back on the trip? Not even some of it? I hope you can, or it's such a waste!!
I can empathize because, even though my situation has nothing to do with a family member becoming ill, I have hit nothing but roadblocks in trying to sketch out some sort of semblance of a DLR Halloween Trip. Every time I think I have the plan in place, something comes up to put a bug hurdle in my way. I'm starting to think it's just a 'sign' that I should not bother with Halloween Time this year. Trouble is, I want to go to DLR for the holiday season, no matter what. I just hope I don't encounter the same issues for that trip as I did for this one.
As for the merchandise, I don't know the number off hand, but if you look online for "
Disneyland DelivEARS," you will find a phone number for the direct line for merchandise at DLR. Even though the
Disney Store has some things you can get in the parks, they don't have as many things as you will find through Disneyland DelivEARS. You can ask the CM for anything they might have available.
Otherwise, Laughing Place should have a lot of the Halloween items - if not now, then soon after Halloween Time ends.