This is copied from my Trip Report, as I wanted a broader audience to see it. I know many people are die-hard on-site guests. My opinion isn't going to sway them. But many other families are likely like mine: tempted by the advantages of staying on-site but then reluctant to pay the huge cost difference. For us, we can afford staying on site but I always want to get the best value for my money. I decided to take the plunge on this recent trip and book on-site. While I don't regret it, it helped me realize that a HoJo Kids' Suite works best for my family and our needs.
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So I think this deserves its own post. Staying on-site is expensive at DLR, especially when you consider how close the off-site motels are. On our past 2 family trips to DLR, we stayed in a Kids' Suite at the Howard Johnson. I loved it our first trip: 2 rooms (1 with a comfortable king bed and 1 with bunk beds), 2 bathrooms, a microwave, and a mini-fridge all for only $99/night (thanks again to jory29 for giving us her reservation back in Sept. 2011 at that amazing special rate).
On our second trip, it was about $180/night, which was still a great deal for 2 rooms just 8 minutes from the Esplanade. I looked into it for our third trip but it was $244/night. That price really surprised me. On our last trip, the carpet looked dingier, the ambient hotel noise from other guests seemed louder, and I realized that the bloom was off the rose. I really didn't think it was worth that much. Plus, it made the difference between HoJo Kids' Suite and on-site rates that much lower. So I decided to splurge on DLH. Plus, the pool and waterslides looked amazing at DLH.
Here's my breakdown comparing the two.
Pros for DLH:
* Early Magic Hour access, however CS and TSMM were both down on both of our EMH mornings in DCA so we spent the time in RSR stand-by, which I would prefer to do via FP. So it wasn't as helpful as I had hoped it to be.
* Amazing water slides for kids (though my girls never played at the HoJo's water area because they took naps)
* Ability to order cocktails while sitting poolside (though it took HUGE efforts to flag down wait staff every time we wanted to order when we rented a cabana, so I was quite annoyed about that)
* Ability to order room service (which we never do so it's not a huge pro for us)
* Disney theming (Mickey ear faucet handles, lamp bases, etc.)
Neutral/Push comparing DLH and HoJo:
* Service. I thought DLH service would be amazing, but it wasn't any better than HoJo. I had to actually ask for a birthday button for my 5 year old, even though I made sure it was noted on the reservation when I booked the room. No special Disney magic at all for us. We also didn't get any towel animals, which I thought folks here mentioned DLH staff made for them.
* Location. I hated pushing through the crowds in DTD walking to the Esplanade, compared to walking from HoJo when you cross right at Manchester and have the sidewalk to yourself. But there aren't homeless people in DTD so I think it's a push between the two. The monorail was not as advantageous as I had hoped, as it only went to Tomorrowland and sometimes had a long line.
Cons for DLH:
* Very expensive
* Heightened expectations which weren't met, for us (I expected higher level service, special little touches, etc.)
* Lower value. Room had 2 queen beds, 1 sink, 1 toilet, 1 bathtub, 1 mini-fridge (without the freezer compartment) and no coffeemaker (at least none that I could find!) compared to HoJo's King bed, bunk beds, sofa bed, 2 sinks, 2 toilets, 2 bathtubs, Keurig, microwave and mini-fridge.
* Uncomfortable and noisy bed, as it squeaked when you shifted your weight even slightly! DH and I weigh about 300 pounds total so it's not because we're overweight. It was hard finding a comfortable spot so I was tossing and turning at first but the squeakiness made me feel like I really shouldn't move. DDs' bed didn't squeak but together they are less than 100 pounds, so I assume the bed will squeak for anyone who weighs more than 100 pounds.
Thus, I don't think we'll be staying on-site again anytime soon. I'd rather stay at HoJo in a Kids' Suite with more space. If we can ever get a deal on a villa at GC, that might be worth splurging on but I don't want to do a family trip in a standard hotel room again.
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So I think this deserves its own post. Staying on-site is expensive at DLR, especially when you consider how close the off-site motels are. On our past 2 family trips to DLR, we stayed in a Kids' Suite at the Howard Johnson. I loved it our first trip: 2 rooms (1 with a comfortable king bed and 1 with bunk beds), 2 bathrooms, a microwave, and a mini-fridge all for only $99/night (thanks again to jory29 for giving us her reservation back in Sept. 2011 at that amazing special rate).
On our second trip, it was about $180/night, which was still a great deal for 2 rooms just 8 minutes from the Esplanade. I looked into it for our third trip but it was $244/night. That price really surprised me. On our last trip, the carpet looked dingier, the ambient hotel noise from other guests seemed louder, and I realized that the bloom was off the rose. I really didn't think it was worth that much. Plus, it made the difference between HoJo Kids' Suite and on-site rates that much lower. So I decided to splurge on DLH. Plus, the pool and waterslides looked amazing at DLH.
Here's my breakdown comparing the two.
Pros for DLH:
* Early Magic Hour access, however CS and TSMM were both down on both of our EMH mornings in DCA so we spent the time in RSR stand-by, which I would prefer to do via FP. So it wasn't as helpful as I had hoped it to be.
* Amazing water slides for kids (though my girls never played at the HoJo's water area because they took naps)
* Ability to order cocktails while sitting poolside (though it took HUGE efforts to flag down wait staff every time we wanted to order when we rented a cabana, so I was quite annoyed about that)
* Ability to order room service (which we never do so it's not a huge pro for us)
* Disney theming (Mickey ear faucet handles, lamp bases, etc.)
Neutral/Push comparing DLH and HoJo:
* Service. I thought DLH service would be amazing, but it wasn't any better than HoJo. I had to actually ask for a birthday button for my 5 year old, even though I made sure it was noted on the reservation when I booked the room. No special Disney magic at all for us. We also didn't get any towel animals, which I thought folks here mentioned DLH staff made for them.
* Location. I hated pushing through the crowds in DTD walking to the Esplanade, compared to walking from HoJo when you cross right at Manchester and have the sidewalk to yourself. But there aren't homeless people in DTD so I think it's a push between the two. The monorail was not as advantageous as I had hoped, as it only went to Tomorrowland and sometimes had a long line.
Cons for DLH:
* Very expensive
* Heightened expectations which weren't met, for us (I expected higher level service, special little touches, etc.)
* Lower value. Room had 2 queen beds, 1 sink, 1 toilet, 1 bathtub, 1 mini-fridge (without the freezer compartment) and no coffeemaker (at least none that I could find!) compared to HoJo's King bed, bunk beds, sofa bed, 2 sinks, 2 toilets, 2 bathtubs, Keurig, microwave and mini-fridge.
* Uncomfortable and noisy bed, as it squeaked when you shifted your weight even slightly! DH and I weigh about 300 pounds total so it's not because we're overweight. It was hard finding a comfortable spot so I was tossing and turning at first but the squeakiness made me feel like I really shouldn't move. DDs' bed didn't squeak but together they are less than 100 pounds, so I assume the bed will squeak for anyone who weighs more than 100 pounds.
Thus, I don't think we'll be staying on-site again anytime soon. I'd rather stay at HoJo in a Kids' Suite with more space. If we can ever get a deal on a villa at GC, that might be worth splurging on but I don't want to do a family trip in a standard hotel room again.

Never once did we feel threatened or unsafe on Harbor. 

I don't think I could have finished my trip staying thereafter that. I agree about the walk that is why I like to stay in the bubble, we just feel a little safer there which may be a false sense, but we do.
In fairness I think every Hotel has had a yikes minute.....so it's nice you addressed it.