ArchOwl
The Highly Educated Owl
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To be perfectly honest, when I first started coming here from the WDW boards I felt the same way about Disneylanders. You guys scared the beejesus outta me back then. I had always felt the WDWers were more welcoming to new posters, but that was just one perspective and that was many moons ago. Now I think even I'd be scared to go to the WDW boards. Even I'd be an "outsider" there now.
To be fair, I think Disney Cruisers are the most critical of other's opinions. They seem the least tolerant of repeated questions, etc, but again that may just be perception and not really true. I see the rivalry like my children vying for attention and affection when they were toddlers. Each one showing off their latest drawing or story they came up with trying to top the other one. It wasn't ok for my kids to be like that because I love them both the same but differently, just like the two Disney parks. (I'm sure the other parks would be the same, but I've not visited them yet.)
I, personally, believe and feel these boards are for EVERYONE who loves Disney whether it be Disneyland, WDW, DCL, Disney movies, or just the Mouse himself. There shouldn't be rivalry since we all love something Disney or we wouldn't be here. I just wish everyone else felt the same way sometimes. I think others see it more as Disneyland is their child and WDW is someone else's and they want their kid to be better than the other guy's kid.
I guess we are good at just scaring each other,

And I don't think of it as comparing children, but fans having discussions about the best of each park. I know that DL doesn't have the best of everything and neither does WDW, etc. What is fun as a fan is debating which park has the best version of a ride or perhaps the best restaurant or maybe the best hotel. That is the fun of being a fan, knowing these things like very few people do and discussing them with other fans, or nerds, or whatever we want to call ourselves. I mean, my DH can only take so much!

And yes, some people will take it too far, because let's face it, we are all human and tend to do things like that. But without the passion, we aren't true fans at all!
