Just curious were you on the dining plan? We have had to order off the adult menu occasionally when there were no safe kids options, but nobody ever gave us a hard time about it. Usually, we are charged for the adult meal, but once in a while they will charge us a kid's price.
Once in a blue moon I've had a chef who just appears annoyed at having to deal with us, but the vast majority have been great. Sorry you experienced some of the not so great ones.
Yes, we were on the dining plan. I even offered to pay the difference but he just said "we can't do it." and walked off in a snit. I was frankly shocked, as most places were fabulous with it. That said, we were very unimpressed with our whole experience there that night- we had CM's with name tags on sitting down and drinking at tables during their shift- they were joining groups of friends for drinks when they were clearly "on duty". This was two years ago in June.
Okay, so we're staying at Art of Animation. I'm hoping to ship a box of safe snack-type foods from home, and then supplement at the grocery store. We're Canadian, so brands are a bit different from what I'll find in the US - I just need to do some research. My plan was to have breakfast in our room most days, but I am tempted by Character breakfast - maybe at the Chef Mickeys? I've been hearing about the allergy waffles and my question was whether or not they had egg in them, but after hearing from you it seems that they're safe. So, if we went to the cafeteria at AoA and told them about the allergies, she could likely get waffles, fruit and bacon? do they use a separate waffle maker do you know? All I can think about is the cross-contamination! Do you happen to have any experience at Cinderella's Royal Table for dinner? I would love to take my daughter there on her birthday while we're on our trip. Thanks again, I really so appreciate the info!