Hello! We went to WDW in Nov with our 8 year old twins. One of our sons has cerrebral palsy and was mostly in his wheelchair (he can use a walker very effectively, but stamina/speed a big issue for a huge place like WDW).
A few fairly random thoughts:
- we stayed at the Grand Floridian and did not have a car - really didn't need one. The transportation system was a major plus for us. We explained that Mark could get out of his chair also (we were trying to get >2 w/c's on the buses), and some drivers were reluctant - they really preferred them tied down.
- we did have one day when we had to wait for a third bus because the 1st 2 already all full up for w/c's. (We were not the 1st stop on the route.) The
2nd driver actually "called ahead" (not sure to whom) to send word that we were waiting and needing w/c access. The 3rd bus arrived quite quickly. If you run into this problem, ask the driver if he'she can "call ahead" (whatever that means!)
- the ease of using the monorail was amazing!!! The CM's saw us coming and would pull out the ramp in a flash. Our son tended to stay in the w/c, just because it was easy for all of us and comfortable for him.
- if you plan on taking any of the launches, be prepared for some push back re: w/c. We often took the boat from Magic Kingdom to Grand Floridian, and we also took the boat from Wilderness Lodge after dinner one night. We explained that w/c could be collapsed and our son could walk (with lots of assistance) onto the boat (aka "it's no different than a stroller and we see lots of them here", we said very politely), and then we were OK. We were not there at a crowded time, so be prepared for variances.
- I'd definitely take your own rented chair - you don't want to run the risk of them running out, although I have no idea how likely this is. Does your son often use a w/c? If not usually, and he's going to be using it a lot, get a w/c that is the right size for him if you can. Sitting awkwardly for long periods gets uncomfortable.
- we saved our son's stamina for going out for dinner in the evenings - the walk through the hotel to the monorail, to the restaurant and back again etc. He also walked from the GF to the Polynesian for a character breakfast - a decent walk, good exercise and got those hips loosened up!
We will definitely be going back to WDW, and one of the biggest reasons was physical accessibility AND the CM's desire to make life easier for the whole family. I hope you experience the same - have a wonderful trip!
Twinmum