Hi Karen! you are a woman after my own (purple)heart! I have no children that I wish to borrow or pay for either, my nieces and nephew say to me all the time "you're going to Disney....AGAIN???? aren't you gonna take us?? I love them to death but I don't think I could do the "I'm tired, I'm hungry, I don't want to ride that, can I have that, hold this..." battle with them. I love going to Disney alone, I have never felt uneasy being there alone and I can totally entertain myself so there's no need to be apprehensive.
what is it exactly that has you skittish about going solo? there are tons of people on the forum that do the solo thing all the time, a lot of times you can actually meet up with one if you so choose to...for drinks, for a meal or even just to pal around with for the day.
I am heading down at the end of this month for a week and I can't wait. I have a dining plan (reservations and all) only because it makes me stop and relax a bit, if I didn't have it, I probably would forget to eat or not eat properly plus it gives me a chance to try new restaurants and awesome food.