The way I see it: If you're not hurting yourself or others, DO WHAT YOU WANT!![]()
We are planning a Christmas trip to Rome and Paris. I am supposed to be online this morning (as per husband's request) finding out what days the museums/monuments are closed. But, here I am, on The Dis, not planning our Rome/Paris trip, but looking at Disney stuff! What the heck is wrong with me?!?
I really enjoy listening to the Dis Unplugged and appreciate the critical eye with which they look at what Disney does. However, with this confessions show, that critical eye turned away from the Disney company and onto the fans of the podcast. And while I fully imagine it was not their intention and I am no way saying they are these kind of people, the tone of this particular podcast was judgmental and at times, downright mean.
I started listening to the show on my way home from work on Friday and then continued today. For me, listening to the podcast team comment on and openly laugh over people's genuine confessions was not only uncomfortable, but made my stomach twist with dread in a way I haven't felt since high school. It was that moment of talking about something you care about, only to have others take what you said and use it to mock you. It was by no means personally hurtful to me, but it was definitely hard to listen to the general unkindness in this show.
What is sticking with me right now and prompting me to write this is that I feel like so many people find the Dis and the DisBoards because people in their lives don't "get" their Disney love. There is so much joy in being part of this community of Disers because the people here GET the Disney love. The judgmental, and frankly alienating, tone of that podcast really seemed to go against that whole idea of a community of people who love Disney. That's not because the podcasters have different opinions from the people who wrote in, but because the borderline ridicule over a love of Disney seems so against the spirit of what the community of the Dis represents. After all, wasn't this all started by someone who has confessed to taking home park bags and napkins to pack lunches and videotaped resort TV to watch later?
Please know I am not demanding an apology or railing from my soapbox about how I'll never listen to this show again. But I did want to share a perspective of what it's from the other side in hopes that you will be open to hearing some thoughts on the negative tone of this particular segment. I look forward to future shows and the excellent coverage of all things Disney.
I really enjoy listening to the Dis Unplugged and appreciate the critical eye with which they look at what Disney does. However, with this confessions show, that critical eye turned away from the Disney company and onto the fans of the podcast. And while I fully imagine it was not their intention and I am no way saying they are these kind of people, the tone of this particular podcast was judgmental and at times, downright mean.
I started listening to the show on my way home from work on Friday and then continued today. For me, listening to the podcast team comment on and openly laugh over people's genuine confessions was not only uncomfortable, but made my stomach twist with dread in a way I haven't felt since high school. It was that moment of talking about something you care about, only to have others take what you said and use it to mock you. It was by no means personally hurtful to me, but it was definitely hard to listen to the general unkindness in this show.
What is sticking with me right now and prompting me to write this is that I feel like so many people find the Dis and the DisBoards because people in their lives don't "get" their Disney love. There is so much joy in being part of this community of Disers because the people here GET the Disney love. The judgmental, and frankly alienating, tone of that podcast really seemed to go against that whole idea of a community of people who love Disney. That's not because the podcasters have different opinions from the people who wrote in, but because the borderline ridicule over a love of Disney seems so against the spirit of what the community of the Dis represents. After all, wasn't this all started by someone who has confessed to taking home park bags and napkins to pack lunches and videotaped resort TV to watch later?
Please know I am not demanding an apology or railing from my soapbox about how I'll never listen to this show again. But I did want to share a perspective of what it's from the other side in hopes that you will be open to hearing some thoughts on the negative tone of this particular segment. I look forward to future shows and the excellent coverage of all things Disney.
Well, you also have to look at who was on that podcast. Julie admits she was not a big fan of the parks growing up because she only came to WDW once. Kathy never came to WDW until later in life, but she is such a big fan, she got most of it. JenniLyn gets it; her blog was called The Disney Driven Life. Teresa was never a big fan; I remember when she first came on the podcast she didn't even know the names of many attractions. Craig, I believe, has stated he was never that big of a fan.This post expresses how I feel about the segment much more eloquently than I would be able to. I've been listening to the podcast since 2006. There have been plenty of times that podcasters have expressed opinions and beliefs that differed from mine, but this is the first time that I ever felt such a high level of scorn and derision.
This post expresses how I feel about the segment much more eloquently than I would be able to. I've been listening to the podcast since 2006. There have been plenty of times that podcasters have expressed opinions and beliefs that differed from mine, but this is the first time that I ever felt such a high level of scorn and derision.
I was privileged to be on the DIS ABD Backstage Magic tour this past July. At the opening dinner, we were all given the chance to say what we were most looking forward to during the trip. I shared that what I was most looking forward to was spending time with people who "get" Disney as much as I do, who don't look at me weird when I go around on the TTA three straight times or pop in the local Disney store just to browse because I'm having a crappy day. On that ABD trip, I definitely found like minded folks.
Listening to this podcast segment made me feel like an outsider.
Well, you also have to look at who was on that podcast. Julie admits she was not a big fan of the parks growing up because she only came to WDW once. Kathy never came to WDW until later in life, but she is such a big fan, she got most of it. JenniLyn gets it; her blog was called The Disney Driven Life. Teresa was never a big fan; I remember when she first came on the podcast she didn't even know the names of many attractions. Craig, I believe, has stated he was never that big of a fan.
If someone were to come into my home and start picking apart my collections or a way that I do things or what makes me the happiest, I am sure that I would have something to say to them. I also know that I would take the comments with humor and know that nothing said was in anyway meant to make fun of me or my personal world. To Each, his own.