Wow! I am reading all of this with a mix of sadness and anger at what has happened. When I went last fall and there were 2 of us in
ECV's at the stop most of the time we didn't have too many problems. There were certainly some bus drivers that were better than others. And one that was so nasty I was almost in tears. Mostly the ones I didn't like were not helpful enough in talking us through parking. It certainly did seem that every bus was different and some were much harder to park in than others. Even though they seem to look alike.
There was also the night that the bus driver allowed the other passengers to get on WHILE we were loading the ECV's. Okay, to be fair he opened the front door and said to them "Please wait" and left the front door open. Yeah, that was effective.

In their defense I don't think they spoke English and had no idea what he had just said to them. But if he had CLOSED the door as all the other bus drivers did that would have solved that problem! As my friend Shugardrawers says, we are pretty sure that bunch learned what "Please Wait" means in English, and a few other colorful Phrases as we tried to Park the
ECVs while they were streaming onto the bus and trying to push past us. We are not sure they all left the bus with all 10 toes. . .
But I digress.
I am reading these stories and am thinking that if I had been told that it would just take too long to load me that I would probably have pulled my ECV up to the front door (those suckers can move fast when you need them to

) and parked right there. And let the bus driver know I would move when he loaded me, or when he called a supervisor. I know, probably not really the BEST way to deal with this (you can yell at me Sue!) but I am pretty assertive and not really one to sit still and be ignored. I do realize that most people are not as, shall we say, outgoing as I am.

But it is sort of the reverse of the bus driver refusing to move unless passengers move out of the seats needed for the ECV/wc.
And I am also really good at ignoing the comments of the "crowd". Walk a mile in my shoes. . . oh wait, you can't because I can't walk a mile, or even more than a few feet.