Disipline at Disney....

[Harlie]

I am really excited for the opportunity to take my kids to DLR, however, I have these concerns in the back of my mind on how we should manage once we are there and one or all three children break down and start copping attitudes (throwing tantrums). I know my kids well enough (especially DS (7)) to know that I should expect this at one time or another.

Does any other parents have ideas or experience they would like to share that may work, or haved worked for them?

I'll add that we do plan on taking mid-day breaks at our hotel for a swim and a snooze.

 

[princesssfws]

My kids actually seem to behave so much better at WDW than anywhere else . The times that they did cop an attitude was when they were hungry. The best advice I can give, is when you notice they are getting hungry or tired, STOP, don't try to do the one more thing.

The problem we've had most is fighting over who sits where in the stroller. So we just set a rule about it and they understood. If they didn't like it, they could walk.

I think you still must discipline but also give them some second chances since they are in an extremely stimulating environment and are probably tired.

You know your kids the best and what will set them off. Try to avoid or distract, whatever works for you family, to keep the peace between all.

 

[tjmw2727]

My best advice is to be proactive, make sure they drink plenty of wate, eat healthy snacks and meals in addition to the treats. Use fastpass as much as possible to avoid longer lines and make time for play - use the playgrounds and water play areas and if possible take time for pool breaks. Make sure everyone has a say in the plans with at least one must do to look forward to. Consider separating if one child can't ride an attraction to so something fun with that child instead of just waiting.

As far as handling behavior issues I try and stay consistant with what I do at home, IMHO if you have clear expectations and clear consequences it helps. Have an idea ahead of time what consequences will be - missing a ride, returning to the room etc, give a warning and be prepared to follow through. If it is a true tantrum make sure you don't reward it - even if you get a few stares from strangers, in the long run it isn't worth it You will know if your child is overwhelmed, tired or truly misbehaving so I would tailor your "discipline" based on that.

Take it slow, don't try and see and do everything, kids can get overwhelmed much eaiser than we can.

Have fun!
TJ