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Dawn, the single/double decision is yours to make. I'd wait until I had all the pieces to the puzzle before making a decision. As crazy as it sounds, my wish that I'd considered a double has NOTHING to do with fear of cancer coming back. It really only has to do with the fact that when braless I would not be lopsided. That's the only, selfish reason...honest. ;) Oh, and I believe you do want the sentinal node biopsy. It's one of those pieces to the puzzle that really helps you make decisions about treatment. I think you sound great! Just keep making it through one day at a time. Soon you'll be telling us that your treatment is almost behind you.

Love the pink purse. Very pretty.

So where are our puppy pictures? :mad: :rotfl:
 
Dawn, the single/double decision is yours to make. I'd wait until I had all the pieces to the puzzle before making a decision. As crazy as it sounds, my wish that I'd considered a double has NOTHING to do with fear of cancer coming back. It really only has to do with the fact that when braless I would not be lopsided. That's the only, selfish reason...honest. ;) Oh, and I believe you do want the sentinal node biopsy. It's one of those pieces to the puzzle that really helps you make decisions about treatment. I think you sound great! Just keep making it through one day at a time. Soon you'll be telling us that your treatment is almost behind you.

Love the pink purse. Very pretty.

So where are our puppy pictures? :mad: :rotfl:

I agree that the sentinal node biopsy is really important. My lymph nodes appeared to be benign on MRI and ultrasound but there wound up being a positive sentinal node and micro mets to one other lymph node. Not the endof the world but it did change my chemo plans from four to six and the easy stuff to the hard stuff. TC vs. TAC. (NOT that ANY of it is really EASY!).

You want a complete picture so you can get the proper treatment and get well. Hang in...and if the lymph nodes look benign then that is of course, still a great sign!:goodvibes
 
Waiting on DH to upload pictures as that is in his job description.

We really need to name this dog. We came up with Cindy yesterday, short for Cinderella of course. However, my best friend in the world is also a Cindy. She is not a dog lover and although I don't think she would mind our naming the dog Cindy, I still feel funny about it.

WE also like pumpkin and Dandy.

Raining today. We have cleaned up so many messes. She did ok this morning, going out and doing stuff several times. My daughter was home sick and did not do the honors of taking her out. We do have her confined to the tiled kitchen area, and in the crate when we can't be with her in the kitchen.

Should I use wewe pads at all?

She chews on everything, but we did buy a wewe pad holder, that is supposed to help with that. I was thinking of training her on that outside of the crate.

Input anyone?

I can see I will be getting up alot during the night. I am too old for this.
 
Waiting on DH to upload pictures as that is in his job description.

We really need to name this dog. We came up with Cindy yesterday, short for Cinderella of course. However, my best friend in the world is also a Cindy. She is not a dog lover and although I don't think she would mind our naming the dog Cindy, I still feel funny about it.

WE also like pumpkin and Dandy.

Raining today. We have cleaned up so many messes. She did ok this morning, going out and doing stuff several times. My daughter was home sick and did not do the honors of taking her out. We do have her confined to the tiled kitchen area, and in the crate when we can't be with her in the kitchen.

Should I use wewe pads at all?

She chews on everything, but we did buy a wewe pad holder, that is supposed to help with that. I was thinking of training her on that outside of the crate.

Input anyone?

I can see I will be getting up alot during the night. I am too old for this.

I am firm believe that dogs should go outside to do any business... but, have seen dogs who are trained to use those pads... and I know I shouldnt talk about this, but im going to. I went to someones hows for my job, and HAD to wear booties... ALMOST had to wear a mask so I could breathe and at the end, I had to throw away my shoes that I ONLY wore to this woman's house because she paper trained her dogs.... They were NOT small dogs! One was a Rottie/lab mix! This was nastier than going into a house with bugs for me. Your feet would stick to the carpet... and the tile was so slick with slime and grime, that you would slide. She blamed it all on a roof leak from the hurricanes. Now mind you, I drive past this house several times everyday... I NEVER saw a tarp on the roof, never saw anyone ever there to work on it, and I still havent seen any carpet outside to be disposed of.

OMG... I am so sorry to rant! I am sure this would never be the case, but I cant get rid of that visual of that house at the moment.... so will change my subject (more like a U turn)

Can you please pray for my friend Emily. She has a daughter in mid to late 20s named Nicole. Nicole has cancer of the tongue and has been given a couple months. They had thought they got it, but it came back 4x worse and they were going to do a removal of her tongue, but found the cancer is now in her sternum. She has been doing audio tapes of her voice for her children. I know the whole family could use the prayers, and I thank you so much!!!
 

Sha said:
She has been doing audio tapes of her voice for her children
:sad1: :sad1: :sad1: Nicole is on the top of my prayer list. My heart goes out to her.

Laurie, NO PADS! Just get her to go outside!! You'll be outside a lot! It will take a while. :snail:

Laura, love the bag! :yay:
 
What a sad story. Please keep us updated. I'm praying for Nicole.

The best thing will be if the pup gets to be friendly with Snappy. She'll follow along and go do what Snappy does. So if you can get Snappy to go, the pup will probably go too. The only time I use papers is if I have to be gone longer than my dog can easily hold it. For example if we leave them loose in the kitchen because we'll be gone most of the day and my mom can't come let them have a break, I'll put papers near the back door. (I wish we had a dog door, but we don't.) Since that doesn't happen very often, we don't use the paper/pad method. We usually just keep them in their crate if we won't be gone more than 5 hours.
 
I saw this (on the Dana Farber Cancer Institute website) when I was looking for something else and thought it might help reassure some of you who've had DCIS:

http://www.healthday.com/Article.asp?AID=612600

Precancerous Breast Lesions Cause Unnecessary Worry
In most cases, ductal carcinoma in situ will not spread, researchers say

By Carolyn Colwell
HealthDay Reporter

TUESDAY, Feb. 12 (HealthDay News) -- Many women diagnosed with a precancerous breast lesion known as ductal carcinoma in situ (DCIS) are highly anxious about their prognosis, even though they face a low risk of a recurrence or of developing invasive breast cancer, a new study finds.

"Many of these women are living as if they're waiting for the other shoe to drop," said lead researcher Dr. Ann Partridge, an oncologist at the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute and Brigham & Women's Hospital, in Boston.

Her team published the findings Feb. 12 in the online edition of the Journal of the National Cancer Institute.

The study noted that 28 percent of the participants "believed that they had a moderate or greater chance of DCIS spreading to other places in their bodies, despite the fact that metastatic breast cancer actually occurs following a diagnosis of DCIS less than 1 percent of the time."

DCIS involves abnormal cells in the lining of the breast duct that have not spread outside the duct, according to the National Cancer Institute. In 2006, DCIS accounted for more than 20 percent of all diagnoses linked to breast cancer in the United States -- about 62,000 cases, the study reported.

The increasing percentage of DCIS diagnoses over the last 20 years or more has been attributed to improved detection from the increasing use of screening mammography, experts say.

But all too often, women are unnecessarily frightened by a DCIS diagnosis, said the authors of the study, which involved almost 500 women newly diagnosed with DCIS.

"In the complex treatment decision-making process, it is often possible to lose sight of the fact that DCIS poses limited risks to a woman's overall mortality," the study authors noted.

Nevertheless, approximately 38 percent of those surveyed thought they had at least a moderate risk of getting an invasive cancer over the next five years, and 53 percent reported intrusive or avoidant thoughts about DCIS. That number declined to 31 percent 18 months after diagnosis, the researchers said.

Among the 487 study participants who were newly diagnosed with DCIS, 34 percent had undergone a mastectomy, 50 percent had radiation therapy, and 43 percent reported taking tamoxifen to reduce their chances of breast cancer. The type of treatment or combination varied by surgeon, hospital volume and geographic region, the study explained.

"Although decision-making about treatment is complex, there is little doubt that women will be limited in their ability to participate in informed decision-making if they harbor gross misperceptions about the health risks they face," the study authors said. Researchers found a "strong relationship between distress and inaccurate risk perceptions," they added.

One of the difficulties of such measures of anxiety about DCIS is that the study did not determine what these patients had learned from their physicians or from other sources -- such as the Internet -- about DCIS, and how accurate that information was, said Michael Stefanek, vice president of behavioral research for the American Cancer Society.

The choice of treatment depends upon the characteristics of the patient and the lesion, added Partridge, who is also an assistant professor of medicine at Harvard Medical School. The dilemma posed by the prospect of under- or over-treating DCIS is complicated by medicine's current inability to distinguish between "good actors and bad actors" -- lesions that don't recur or go on to become invasive breast cancer and those that do, she added.

Another expert agreed with that assessment.

Everyone would be more comfortable if there wasn't such a "big gray zone" between what is normal tissue and what is invasive cancer, said Dr. H. Gilbert Welch, a professor of medicine at Dartmouth Medical School and an expert on how well health care works for patients. Welch argued that as mammography continues to detect smaller and smaller DCIS lesions, there can be a tendency to over-treat. He recommends that the diagnostic threshold for DCIS be raised to doing biopsies on only lesions that measure 1 centimeter or greater in diameter.

"There is this ironic finding that women with this early precursor lesion may be treated more aggressively than women with invasive breast cancer," he said. "They may have mastectomies instead of just a lumpectomy. At some level we have to say, 'Does this really make sense?'"

Another study in the same issue of JNCI suggests that medical science is winning the war on breast cancer. The research, which involved nearly 5,000 breast cancer patients, was led by the National Cancer Institute of Canada's Clinical Trials Group. A total of 256 of the participants died during the four-year study.

The researchers found that older women who had survived for at least five years after a diagnosis of early stage breast cancer were most likely to die of causes unrelated to their breast malignancy. In fact, 60 percent of these deaths were not caused by breast cancer, the Canadian team found.
 
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sha- I'm praying for Nicole and her family. I don't know anything about oral cancers, I had no idea it was so devastatingly fast...:hug:

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Great link, Linda!!!!:woohoo:

Keep 'em coming!!!

Good to hear encouraging news.

No pics yet, DH is having issues with the upload to the computer. He got a bit too frustrated so for the sake of marital harmony, I gave him more time.

DD17 likes the name pumpkin bear. Her little head is as round as a ball. DD17's boyfriend is coming over tonight, maybe we can get a name.

Meanwhile I am unintentionally calling her Snappy. We have a lot of confusion around here.

Y'all were right though, she follows Snappy around and does her business in the yard. DH took the pm responsibilities and i took the very early am ones to let her out. No accidents during the night, and the crate was dry. I realized this morning though she needs to go out immediately after eating.:eek:

I think I am finally starting to bond with her. She gets right to it when we let her out and comes back when called (by any name;) ). So I can get back to bed. She seems to be ok in the crate sleeping too, no whining.

I swear once during the night it seemed Snappy came in to alert us that the pup needed to go outside.

It may be the start of a beautiful friendship, AFTER the pup stops trying to chew on her tail and ears.
 
OK, DH figured out his picture problem, our version of the Olympus software (our camera is an Olympus) wasn't compatible with Vista.

Now we are cooking.

Now I just have to remember how to upload here.



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Wow that sure came out big, sorry.

DD17 wants to call her Naj.

Not sure what that is about except one of her friends from New Orleans was a sweet little Iranian girl named Nadia and she called her Naj as I recall.


What do y'all think is the puppy cute or what. See I told you her head was like a little round ball.
 
Thanks, Linda.

I can't tell you how DH struggled with that Olympus software. They were good about emailing him a version that worked with Vista today. My sweetie even went home from work at lunch because he thought that was the only time he could talk to the Olympus folks. Wasn't that sweet, I told him I was trying to upload a picture for you all to see. He is a keeper.

Actually, we both went home for lunch to let little Naj out. Isn't that a scream? Momma Bear and Papa Bear.
 
She's adorable! She looks like a teddy bear. Thanks for getting pictures up.

I had the most wonderful evening. DH took DD and I to a Michael Buble concert to celebrate my birthday. :lovestruc SWOON!:lovestruc We had a fantastic time. That man can sing and he's pretty easy on the eyes, too. ;) At one point he sang without the microphone to a crown of over 9000 people. We were in the nosebleed section and could hear every word. He really has a set of pipes!
 
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Laurie- Naj is adorable! Makes me want to cuddle up with my computer screen!:goodvibes

Linda- Thanks for the article. Makes me wonder how many others are like me, dxed with DCIS, LCIS, Lobular and Ductal Invasive. Thankfully I'll say that this all came out during my dx and I didn't have to go through years of biopsy after biopsy before being dxed with invasive cancer. It did play a big part in my decision to have bilateral masts...

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Wow that sure came out big, sorry.

DD17 wants to call her Naj.

Not sure what that is about except one of her friends from New Orleans was a sweet little Iranian girl named Nadia and she called her Naj as I recall.


What do y'all think is the puppy cute or what. See I told you her head was like a little round ball.

That is a good name... they say that an animal will tell you their name if you listen. LOL... not sure how sometimes... My sister had a Rottie pup, and when they brought their Boxer (Wishbone because of the wishbone marking on his face) out to meet her she hid under the truck. Thus her name was Heidi.

She's adorable! She looks like a teddy bear. Thanks for getting pictures up.

I had the most wonderful evening. DH took DD and I to a Michael Buble concert to celebrate my birthday. :lovestruc SWOON!:lovestruc We had a fantastic time. That man can sing and he's pretty easy on the eyes, too. ;) At one point he sang without the microphone to a crown of over 9000 people. We were in the nosebleed section and could hear every word. He really has a set of pipes!

He is easy on the eyes... and have his CDs... a client introduced me to his music. Are you sure he didnt have one of those tiny boom mics on?
 
Merry, my mom and I saw Michael Buble perform in Baton Rouge in 2006. I would describe him as a hip, updated version of Frank Sinatra.

Gosh, and so darn young.

Thanks for the compliments on the puppy. Thank goodness for Photobucket, I couldn't figure out what to do in the Olympus software to upload pics but I remembered how to upload to photobucket (really quite easy actually).

DH is not fond of the name Naj so the name isn't definite. Snappy made it so easy for us with the snapping of her jaws when happy and excited that she did from day one. He still wants Bear, to me that is more for a boy dog. Naj sounds more exotic to me and I am thinking we have an exotic dog on our hands from the reading i have done on the web if the PAWS rescue folks are right and this is a pom/chow mix.

She has a pink tongue with a love shade of violet blue spots. I think chows have the blue tongues, not sure if they all do. And she is built solid like a chow. She is cut now, but I wonder what the grown dog is going to look like.
I hope we don't have a beast on our hands.

I keep waiting for the puppy to DO something that we can name her for. Mostly right now it is all about potty training and nipping at us.

She is doing a number on my airplane plants outside too. She loves to swat and chew on the baby plants until they fall off. She acts like a kitty sometimes, I swear. Maybe we will name her kitty and really ruin her life. That could have serious psychological repercussions I bet.

I have not dealt with a puppy since I was in high school, and that one was an outside dog. This is challanging. She gets right under my feet constantly and I am afraid I am either going to step on her or fall. I am having to take my chores a little more slowly or someone could get hurt around here.

No work for me today. . . DD12 has a sore throat.

My cancer was mostly DCIS, the biopsy path report showed it was pretty widespread, but with just a 1 mm area of invasive. The path after surgery showed another area of DCIS of around 2 cm adjacent to the biopsy site, but clear sailing in 16 nodes. It seems amazing to me that with all that DCIS that there was not a larger invasive component, especially as I had the criboform type of DCIS which is the more aggresive kind.

I feel very lucky, and although the stats in Linda's link do make me feel better, I can't say that I don't worry. I think it is just the nature of the going through those days of diagnosis, waiting on test results, hearing bad news intitially, then better news later after the last path report showed clear nodes and no more invasive. I really did not know what to expect. Once I was diagnosed I really expected bad news going forward, but it did not turn out that way.

I think it might be a kind of shell shock, you kind of prepare yourself for the worst and celebrate the positive news you get. I also think there is a benefit to the worry in that it sure makes you attentive to keeping on top of your future health care.

And you can always sedate yourself with a WDW trip!!

Laura, you are getting close to your trip!! YEA!
 
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