I think, you are going to get so many different opinions on this subject. We prefer late seating because for one our dd6 doesn't eat with us at dinner time. We like having the extra time getting ready for dinner. We also live on the West Coast so, 6:30 pm seating would be like eating at 3:30 pm. OUr kids tend to spend the day with us and then dinner with the club. Even if they eat with us, I don't think it is too late because they tend to eat a lot throughout the day and dinner isn't really one of their biggest meals. Plus, you can eat so much throughout the day. But honestly, you know your family the best and what will work for you. Good LUck