Background:
We started off getting the regular dining plan - mainly when it was 'free'. Once they switched the values over to the QS plan and DD turned into an "adult" (age 10) on the plans (happened pretty close together) we went over to the QS plan for
Free Dining then we moved over to paying OOP (out of pocket) and occasionally getting the QS plan when it was free.
Advantages of the dining plan
- you really don't have to worry about what to order in terms of price (I'm not one of those get your moneys worth people we order what we like)
- if you're on the regular dining plan it's really fun to do the character meals (if you've got kids). I bulk at paying for those OOP way too expensive.
- You can eat at Wolfgang Puck Express (in DTD) for a CS credit! Great food but I can't imagine a lot of people would pay for it out of pocket.
- really it's great for folks who like to pay for it then forget about it.
Disadvantages of the dining plan
- if you eat at a TS you do need to remember to budget for tips and those prices (and thus 15% + for a tip) really are expensive.
- I never minded making ADRs 180 days in advance - we always had Park Hoppers and thus could plan fairly easily. If your friends don't have Park Hoppers they need to be pretty well organized in terms of planning where they're going to be going each day.
- the dining plan only really feeds you for 2 meals - if you get the QS it's 2 CS and one snack per day per person. If you get the regular it's 1 TS, 1 CS and one snack per day per person. Seems like they think people only eat twice a day
- it's expensive - especially if your "child" is a Disney adult.
Things we've learned and other comments
For us we loved the regular dining plan when we first started going to Disney. We had so many magical moments at Character Meals that were really priceless. And I loved not having to worry / stress about Disney food prices.
Once we moved to the QS meal plan I really loved the FREEDOM. Most of the time we had our ADRs (when we were on the regular plan) for breakfast so we'd get them done and not have to stop and go to eat. But the QS plan is even easier - just eat when you're hungry basically where you are (no trekking to another park or a resort and building in time to do that).
I thought being on the QS plan we'd end up being bored with burgers/chicken the usual fare but I really did my research on allears and here for menus and found SO many great places to eat that are CS.
I thought I"d dislike eating OOP but we really don't in fact it has a lot of advantages. With either meal plan you get dessert with your meal. With paying OOP we split 2 CS meals (between the 3 of us) and then get dessert / snacks later in the day - for us it spreads the food out nicely AND at a lot of CS locations the desserts are "so-so". You can go to somewhere like Starring Rolls (DHS) or Main Street Bakery (MK) and get a much better dessert later in the day if you're paying OOP (or if you use a snack credit on the meal plan).
When we eat OOP (or often times on the QS plan) we eat breakfast in the room (poptarts, cereal etc - we have a car and a fridge). Then for lunch and dinner we split 2 CS meals between the 3 of us. Budget for food for each day for all 3 of us is $50 and that's easily done even with snacks/ later desserts thrown in.
So my advice (if you're still reading!) is to check over the menus - think about where they really want to eat and see which plan or if OOP works out best for them.