That's because we want you to love Disney World as much as we do! Keep looking, and don't tell your kid(s) anything about plans until you have the confirmation number in hand! One thing to remember: You are going to Disney World! You're all going to have an amazing, magical time, princess meal or not, coveted ADR or not! On our first trip, we had DD5 and DNiece1 princesses in our party. We stayed offsite, didn't eat at a single table service restaurant, and were out of the park by 7pm each evening (so no evening parades, fireworks, etc). People here on the boards would be horrified at our lack of planning. Know what? We had an amazing, magical time, and it led to years and years of Disney World visits! My BIL became a part-time cast member, my sis, BIL, and now 2 nieces have had APs forEVER, DD (now 24, not 5) and I have logged 27 trips to WDW. You can't do it all in one trip, and might not even get to do everything you'd hoped to, but IT'S GOING TO BE AN AMAZING, WONDERFUL, MAGICAL VACATION!! Eyes on the prize: You're taking your family to Disney World!