dh won't go thinking of going alone

[tigercat]

My husband and I are going on a cruise in Jan and I thought that maybe we could go to Disney for a couple of days before hand. At first he said yes but I couldn't book it as the prices weren't out. As I waited for the prices to come in my husband decided that we shouldn't go. He decided that he really didn't want to go anyway. Now I am thinking that maybe I should go down by myself. It is really me that wants to go anyway. It would mean that I would be flying down about 5 days before him. He could then meet me at Disney and we would travel to Miami for the cruise. Just worried about being by myself but also thinking of all the fun I could have. I had been looking forward to just the two of us going without any kids or grandkids. It was to be a trip that we would do what we wanted. I was thinking of staying at Pop. Should I go for it?
tigercat

 

[kim532]

I would go down alone. On our last trip we struck up a conversation with a lady on the bus who vacations to Disney every year alone and she LOVES doing it. She spouted all her reasons, with the primary ones being she felt safe and she got to meet nice people (like me & my DH).

I say go. I think it would be awesome. I hope to go alone someday. Have the place to myself so to speak.

Kim

 

[ziggystardust]

i'd go. it might be sort of strange at first, but i think you'd really enjoy it. My boyfriend, though great and more than happy to go along for the ride, doesn't seem to share the love of disney like i do. I imagine many trips in my future either with girlfriends or by myself.

go. you'll have fun!

 

[fhtpdw20]

Heck yes!!!! I treated myself to five days on my birthday with last year's Celebrate Your Birthday with free admission. I had a terrific time. I came and went as I pleased and did not have to play family pack mule. What is better than having 10 frenchmen sing happy birthday to you? I was also able to do the Key to the Kingdom tour. Have a great time.

 

[dislaney]

I'd go. I've never gone alone but I would jump at the chance. I'd love to just come and go as I please one day.

 

[palmtreegirl]

I wouldn't, I just wouldn't enjoy Disney or any vacation for that matter by myself.

 

[Handbag Lady]

Go and have a great time. My husband just got back from a week alone in Florida. (He has more vacation time that I do.)

He met up with his parents for three days, but other than that, he had a great time on his own. He did what he wanted, when he wanted and he LOVED being able to get up and go without having to wait for me to get ready.

 

[FireDancer]

I love going to WDW solo, go and have a good time.

 

[SandrA9810]

Being alone is where the fun begins. It's your rules, your game. And think of the spending money you'd have by not purchasing a second 5 day ticket.

A lady on here a while back was talking about how she uses her DVC points for a week at the World every so often. And spends a lot of her time on the balcony or poolside reading a book and relaxing.

Plus you can now take advantage of the single riders line, like at Test Track, Rock N Rollercoaster, and Everest. Plus it's much easier to snag a spot for one closer to parade times and fireworks.

 

[Kimberle]

Go for it!!!!

 

[Liberty Belle]

I don't think I would like it. I do think I'd enjoy being at the resort by myself, maybe the World Showcase, and maybe walking around Animal Kingdom, but I don't think I'd enjoy rides alone.

But if you think you'd like it, you should go.

 

[The Mystery Machine]

If you think you would enjoy yourself, go for it.

If I went alone, I would eat at all the fancy restaurants.

 

[mousefanmichelle]

I went alone for a long weekend back in 2008. At first it was odd and I felt like people were looking at me funny but I have to say that I got over it very quickly! I really enjoyed it. I got to do and see the things that intrested me and I got to go at my pace and eat where I wanted to eat. So, so enjoyable! Lots of adults do it alone so I say GO FOR IT!

 

[tigercat]

I think the only time that would be a problem sort of is what about restaurants and eating alone. If I go to a meal that is a buffet I would have to bring all my stuff with me instead of leaving it. I have to have a wheat free diet and found that the table service meals were the easiest and tastiest meals to eat. Counter service is okay but am not a fast food person to begin with and the counter service is harder and more limited. Breakfast would be okay because I would just eat it in the room. I think at night it might be a little lonely but to be honest right now I would relish some time to myself. I had a bad year with the death of my mum, dad and best friend. Also, had pnumonia 3 times, the H1N1 flu as well as brochities, flu's and colds. Problems with one of my kids and 2 grandkids. I am ready to hibernate in a way and maybe this would be just the way to do it. Any advice on the eating part would be great.
tigercat

 

[The Mystery Machine]

I say go five star a few times. Maybe look up some of the showcased interesting restaurants on TV, like in "Diners, Drive-Ins, and Dives" or "Top Chef" chefs in the area?

If you have a desire to check out a restaurant there is no one to compromise with. That would be heaven to me.

ETA...nothing in Orlando for the "Diner's show". That stinks. I would at least plan some fine dining in there. Knowing me, I would be trying out every seafood restaurant around.

Maybe you can try out different places that are sensitive to your dietary needs.

 

[flrose]

Go for it! I going solo and doing as I please when I please. I've never felt uncomfortable. Like a PP said about the lady they met, I feel totally safe and enjoy doing as I please. I met so many interesting people just sitting about different areas and enjoying the atmosphere.

 

[Micca]

I've had a couple of biz trips to Orlando so I've been to WDW alone. I certainly missed DW and DDs, but still had a good time. It's fun to talk to the CMs and other guests. With respect to safety, I think WDW is about as good as it gets.

 

[FireDancer]

There is going to be an article in the DIS Columns section of the site in the near future about solo trips to WDW. There might be some tips in there you can take advantage of.

ETA: That article is now posted.

 

[tigercat]

Thanks for all the encouragement. I am going to look into the cost of it all. Going to the rides and places at Disney that I want to go on my time sounds really nice for a change. I always go to the tune of everyone elses pace.
tigercat

 

[SandrA9810]

Well if you're staying on property, Disney is always good about providing foods for dietary needs. And don't feel bad about ordering off the kids menu either, I do it all the time. It's the perfect size when going solo.

You can also spoil yourself by snacking your way around. Especially at Epcot, just pick up a bite to eat as you work your way around. Then you don't have to worry so much about a meal for lunch.

And I hate carrying a purse. Never have, never will. So I'd suggest bringing a backpack to hold all your stuff. Not once have I had a problem bringing it onto a ride. RnR, I just set it on the floor and put my legs through the straps. Splash mountain, just ask for a great big bag at the gift shop and wrap it up in that 9mine was water proof, so I didn't have to do that). Save the bag for later, might come in handy. And I've never felt uncomfortable just leaving my bag at the table. It also shows, that I haven't left yet. Of course wallet stays in my back pocket. Plus there's a ton of family style buffets, Liberty Tree Tavern, Garden Grill, and Hoop-De-Doo review are just a few of them.