I was going to add on to another post who asked about crowds but I realized I had so many questions.
Is it too crazy to take my family at that time? For us it doesn't matter because we will have been there three times in 2009 and we know we'll be back if we missed something.
Not at all! You don't mention when in December you are planning for, but he first two weeks are fairly quiet at WDW. If you're talking about Christmas/NYE itself then yes, that will be a very busy time...but if you're crazy then so are we! We'll be there for the New Year this year. We fully anticipate huge crowds, but we're excited to be going for the big night. We've been so many times that it's no big deal if we don't get to do something. We're just going to enjoy the atmosphere!
What fun things does everyone do? Explain Candelight Processional and any tips for it?
The Candelight Processional is the telling of the Christmas Story with choral selections from a full choir. It is absolutely beautiful and you need not be religious (we are not) to enjoy it. There are guest narrators every year. The list for this year's narrators is at www.allearsnet.com. Next year's narrators should be announced sometime in late-Summer/early-Fall 2009. If you want to be guaranteed a seat then book the Dinner Package. For the cost of the package you get dinner at an EPCOT restaurant and guaranteed seating at the show. If you'd rather not do the Dinner Package then line up at least 45 minutes before show time. Fifteen minutes before show time they will let those waiting fill any available seats.
My favorite thing at WDW during December is Holidays Around the World. Each country in World Showcase shares its holiday traditions, including their version of Santa Claus.
Other things to do include visiting the parks/resorts to see their holiday decorations, the Christmas parade at the MK, the holiday version of the AK parade, and lots of little things throughout the property.
What does everyone do for Christmas Dinner?
We won't be there for Christmas itself but next year we'll be there for Thanksgiving. I plan to make a full dinner in our villa and we're just going to relax and enjoy the day. If we were going to be there for Christmas and wanted to dine out I would probably choose Artist Point (WL). For NYE dinner this year we're eating at the San Angel Inn in Mexico at EPCOT (another of our favorites!).
Thanks all for your help.