Carole,
My parents have a timeshare at OceanEast, it is on the border of Ormond and Daytona, sometimes they do cash specials, maybe you can get lucky and get a good price on a suite there. I have friends that also stay at the Coral Sands in Ormond, and they seem to like staying there. They have rooms or little cottages. In Daytona Beach, they have redone alot of the oceanside area by the Adams Mark, it is really beautiful with lots to do, but I don't know how expensive it is...there is a movie theater and a bubba gumps there.
As far as where to go eat, I know you said you want to stay away from chains, but I do want to mention that the Red Lobster on A1A is excellent, consistant quality we go there often. A huge local favorite is Marios, an Italian restaurant on us 1 in Ormond. We love it there. Alfies is in Ormond by the sea on a1a, we don't go there but I know it is a reasonably priced local favorite with nightly specials. Julians(prime rib) on A1A in Ormond has a huge local following Charlie Horse on A1A ,very casual, steak and crablegs, almost like a fun biker atmosphere. There is a stonewood tavern on A1A, people rave about, But I think a chain owns that. Anyway, good luck on your trip, I hope you have a super time-Eileen