dating his best friend!

[cindys_castle2011]

humm. well me and my boyfriend Blake (that i liked very very much) broke up over the weekend. well i wasnt even positive it was all the way over with until i called him Sunday night and he said he was at his girlfriends house. So yeah that hurt really bad!!! but before we actually broke up, me and his best friend Kendal was texting. We was talking all about Blake and Kendals girlfriend. Makayla which is like my best friend. Well him and Makayla broke up yesterday. And i think Kendal likes me now. I really dont know. I mean he's so sweet and cute . But i don't know if i can do that to Makayla or Blake. Even though Blake did me really wrong, he was very insecure of himself. but i kinda think i like Kendal to. Does boys get mad if their ex dates their bestfriend. I dont think Makayla will mind because thats just the type of person she is. But i dont want to ruin Blake and Kendals friendship =[.

 

[KitKat_Tink]

some people would get mad
but really it depends on the person...
If your friends with the girl to then yeah that could be weird but my friends have done that before. (kinda switched boyfriends i guess)

But really it truly depends.

 

[#1TiggerFan]

go for it
u two r close friends and it could go to the next lvl

best wishes
Rachel

 

[Lizbon]

Okay personally I think you should wait. In my opinion, if you are going to jump right into a new relationship, right after one just ended, you are not mature enough to be in a relationship. It doesn't matter how old you are or how you handle other situations maturity wise. You don't know for a fact that he likes you, and you're not sure if you like him. I think you could loose a lot more then you could gain in your current situation. Normally I would tell you to go for it, but this is not one of those times. You should DEFINITLY wait a little while before you act on these "feelings". This is my opinion, so please don't take this as an insult to you, just think about what I said. I hope everything works out in the end.

 

[reminisce]

i would definently talk to everyone involved, starting with your best friend, then going on to blake, then kendal if neither of them completely flip.

if someone does flip, then i cant help you. youre just going to have to weigh out if having kendal be more than a friend or having someone else be your friend at all is more important. i suggest a chart

if no one flips, then go for it

 

[Rockstar mentality]

If u were dating my ex i would throw a fit. Idk what action i would accualy take but it wouldnt end well. Thats just me. U gotta ask your bestfriend and if she shows anysigns of unhappiness about it even if she says go for it, DONT DO IT