So, here's the deal.  I've been stewing over this for the past couple of days.  
On our trip last month (from 7/15-7/25), we strayed away from our normal value resort, churn and burn at the park stay, and we booked WL.  We stayed club level.  It was practically perfect.  (practically, because 
nothing is perfect, right??? Ooooh, but this was sooooo close) 
Things we learned???
1) to us, yes, deluxe is worth it...and furthermore, we'd take CL over the 
DDP any day
2) we actually like hanging out at the resort (when it's worth it for us to hang around). I think at the values, we weren't drawn to stick around which is why we burned ourselves out at the parks and came home from vacation, needing a vacation.
3) 
Disney vacations can be relaxing!!! This was never our experience before (see #2)
4) I can watch Wishes from alternate locations and not feel like I am missing out. 
We actually left there saying we'll 
NEVER stay anywhere else.  But, 4 days after getting home, we booked our next trip for April 2013 at 
POLY CL 
On our reservation for last month, I bounced around for the better part of a year changing my reservation from WL, to POLY, to BC - all of them being my dream resorts.
DH would like to try POLY CL a shot, and I would too, I'm sure it will be wonderful.  My problem is that because we feel we have found "perfection" at WL, and we are wondering if we should change that "if it ain't broke, don't fix it" mantra??
We 
had the goal of staying at least once in all of the resorts, so the POLY CL stay would move us in that direction.  
Thoughts???  Stick with what we know?? Or venture out and try something new???