I always look at character meals as time-savers. Sure, they cost you a pretty penny, but if you factor in a 30 minute wait-line for every character that comes to your table, you are saving time, and at Disney, time IS money. I'd pick whichever meal has the most character-appeal for the kids, so you don't have to wait in multiple, in-park (long, hot) lines for those autographs and pics!