We just did the 4 day cruise with our 3 year old daughter. She loved it! She only spent two evenings in the club, but there still were a ton of things to do. Even if she doesn't want to stay in the club, you could probably take her for some of the "better" activities. We stayed with our daughter during Tea for Wendy (she wanted us there) and she loved it. Some of the other activities we enjoyed together were:
the evening shows -- all were wonderful and actually kept her entertained (along with a bag of popcorn and a smoothie)
deck parties -- when leaving the ports, there is usually a huge deck party. We all loved this. We would dance, eat, sing, and just have fun. It was a wonderful way to pass the evening.
pool -- we loved to swim
excursions -- obviously our excursions were different, but we did some of the day trips to the local hotel pools and did local sightseeing. We all had fun.
character visits -- everyday they had a listing of who was where and at what time. It is also in the Navigator (newsletter left in your stateroom nightly with the next days activities highlighted)
movies -- both in the theater and in your stateroom. Some days we ran out of steam or she needed a nap. They have great movies playing in both places (most of them not yet released and an entire station in the stateroom devoted to Disney animated movies)
We had a blast the entire time! I'm pregnant right now and expecting #2 in January. We are planning a trip for next September/October and are bringing both kids. Before our cruise, I would never have thought we could travel with an infant. However, the
Disney Cruise Line has activities for everyone. My husband and I actually felt like we had a "grown up" vacation, but we did almost everything with our daughter. It is not often to find 4 days worth of activities for the entire family to enjoy, but we sure did.
Have fun,
Jennifer