You only get shampoo, conditioner and shower gel when you check in, day four and day 8 (plus keep going every four days after that). Bring some additional of your own if you think you'll need more. You also get bar soap for the shower, so you don't have to rely only on the shower gel.
If you have a one bedroom or larger, bring detergent and fabric softener or sheets.
If you drink coffee, bring extra coffee and filters (basket type). Also sugar, salt, pepper, if you'll be using those. Ziploc bags of various sizes.
I like to bring along those suction cup hooks (you bend the hook down to make it stick) to hang in the shower for wet bathing suits and the shower puff (I bring my own shower puff and shower gel).
If you want to cook in a crock pot, bring that.
Bring your own liquor if you want that because you'll probably get it cheaper at home.
Some people like their own sheets, pillows, blankies.
We bring our own beach towels to take to the water parks.
Cell phone charger, camera battery charger, laptop, extra AA and
AAA batteries,extra memory stick for the camera. I bring my own hairdryer because the one in the villa just doesn't dry fast enough.
Water shoes if you wear them at the pool or water park.
Sunscreen, ear plugs, goggles for the kids.
Bandaids, moleskin, Advil, Bayer, Tylenol, Benedryl, Bactine, digital thermometer, a few safety pins, needle and thread.
Ponchos (we have lots of them - yellow, tan and clear).
Kitchen sink (just checking if you are still reading

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