Over the years I've participated in these discussions myself. I am about to turn 54 so I'm one of those elders that the OP is talking about. I can reflect back to when I was 29 had a wife and 3 young children and was in my 2nd year of working after graduating from college with a degree in accounting. I wasn't making very much money and was struggling make ends meet.
Now fast forward to the present I am doing much better financially and my earnings have outpaced inflation nicely. The OP suggests that "
the cost of living and rate of pay is not relative 30 years ago to what it is today."
The OP went on to say
if a house costs 10x what it cost 30 years ago, the average salary today isn't 10x what it was 30 years ago. Know what I mean? basically, it's harder for this generation to pay bills, own a house and save money than it was for my parents.
Lets try using one of the online inflation calculators.
http://http://www.halfhill.com/inflation.html
If this calculator is correct a salary of $50,000 today would convert to a salary of $13,948 in 1976. Now what would a home cost in 1976 compared to 2006. Home prices vary from location to location. I've picked the midwest and as of the 3rd quarter of 2005 the median home price in the midwest is said to be $173,300. Factoring this into the calculator the value of a $173,300 house in the midwest in 1976 would be $48,343.
Based on this information, it seems that a $50,000 income in 2006 and a $13,948 income in 1976 has about the same purchasing power if you are buying a home. I say this based on dividing $50,000 into $173,300 to get 3.466 in 2006 and dividing $13,948 into $48,343 to get 3.465 for 1976.
I admit my analysis may be a bit crude but I the overall point is that things probably haven't changed much over the years. It's difficult for young people to get started, they want everything now, and they are frustrated that they can't have everything now. But, as time goes on, in many many cases their wages increase beyond the inflation rate and by the time they are in their early to mid 50's they can have many of the things that they couldn't have in their late 20's.
It's possible my calucations are off, it's also possible my assumptions are incorrect. If so, please advise and I will rethink my conclusion.