Confused

[Bromo]

For the past couple of months I have been able to form a somewhat good friendship with my ex-girlfriend. While I may not be 100% over her, I know that we'll be able to be good friends. There is a slight twist though. This past Wednesday we met up for the first time in over a month, just to catch up and see eachother. We both had a good time and enjoyed seeing eachother. On Friday I wrote her an e-mail saying how much I enjoyed Wednesday and how close I really felt to her, and how I realized how much I miss her. Her reply was short and it kind of confused me. She said basically that she had a great time too and that she enjoyed seing me as well, but that it confused her, actually. She said that she was somewhat confused right now, and to bear with her as she is not as "talkative" as she has been recently.
This reply could be interpreted in so many different ways, but I believe that the ball is in her court and I'm not sure what, if anything, I should say.

Now as much as I would love to be in a relationship with her, I don't want to jeoprodize the friendship that we have created.
Just need some advise.

Thanks!!!

 

[Serena]

Hi Bromo,
It sounds like you have a really great relationship in the making. Stick with friendship, but let her know you might like more. Stick with friendship, until she makes it very clear she has to have more, no confusion.

 

[shep]

not sure what advice I could give...but wanted to say WELCOME to the DIS>>

 

[browneyes]

She's probably wondering if you're wanting her to be your girlfriend again or be just friends. She may just want to be friends though.

 

[Frogdad]

Be patient. Be there for her. Be her friend. DO NOT PUSH. It sounds like something deeper may be going on than she is willing to admit. It might have nothing at all to do with you.

 

[DMickey28]

I agree with the above resonpses. Give her time. She is probally just trying to figure things out. It may have confused her to see you agian, and she is trying to figure out what that means, if anything! Women are complicated, I am not ashamed to admit that. Just bear with us!!! Good Luck BROMO!

 

[DocRafiki]

Hmmm.... sometimes I look back on past break-ups and wish I would have put forth a little effort when the exes were still in the "confused" state, before they had a chance to get over the relationship completely. I was always of the opinion that I had no control over what happened and just sat back and accepted whatever happened to me.