As a general rule, I never wish stuff like that on people, this just hit me badly because people were judging the OP when she clearly stated her side of the story, she is a dis member, and she was there! I have no reason to believe she wasn't being truthful, I do however, no disrespect, but I do not believe for a second that you've never encountered a rude customer service rep. We've encountered them before at Disney and just chose to talk about them behind their backs instead of being confrontational, hey that's what they get. It's getting out of hand that more and more people are accepting the fact that you are paying a lot of money to be treated nicely on your vacation, like it or not, it's their job to treat you nice, customer always comes first and some people think because it's Disney you should pardon that, well no thank you anymore. I've only experienced very few disgruntled employees at Disney mostly CM's on the phone (I was a CM at the DS for 3 years) so I know the pressures, however, gives me no right to be rude. The Captain didn't apologize to her for not being able to accomodate what someone else had told her, he "told" her what she was going to do, that is rude. In the customer service business, you're almost guaranteed to apologize for other people's actions, it's crazy but true. You want to make the people who are paying your salary feel comfortable and he didn't and that is too bad. Besides, it's Disney!
Again, no I was not there, but the OP was and I have no reason to believe she's a liar, she sounds nice enough to me.