Yeah, I'm getting the sense that affordable houses and decent schools don't go together down there. Which is unfortunate, because we're coming from a place where real estate is still quite inexpensive. We'll get something around $125K for our house when we sell and don't want to take on a such a big mortgage that it erases the pay increase that comes with the new job, so even with $100+K of that going towards a down payment, Williamson County is likely out of the question.
Do you know anything about private schools in the area? My girls attend(ed) Catholic schools up here, but in Michigan there are a TON of Catholic schools still. I'm not seeing much in TN on the Diocese of Nashville schools page - lots of K-8, not many high schools and none of them in the right area. But there's so much more variation in quality and worldview/approach to science among non-Catholic Christian schools that investigating them feels like a daunting task.
MIL lives in Middle Tennessee about 45 minutes south of Columbia. There is not a big Catholic population in the area. This is more of the "Bible Belt" with lots of Church of Christ, many forms of Baptist, and other non-denominational churches. And there are a lot of churches.
We have attended the 2 Catholic churches near her-very small congregations. One does have a K-8 school. I do not think that there is a Catholic High School in her area.
You can certainly email the Diocese of Nashville to see what might be near the area you are looking at.
The 2 parishes we have attended have priests who are from India and on our last visit in January, the Bishop was going to India with one of the priests the next day. I presume to seek other priests to help in the Diocese.
The area is beautiful with rolling hills and lots of countryside.
For 3-5 day visits, we have always found lots to see and explore and find the people and communities there to be very nice and welcoming. More of a small town, slower feel, and things are spread out.
I would say your $125,000 even in that area probably would not buy what you may be used to.
Nashville is sprawling and spreading out. In MIL's area, a new high end development is coming in to house the executives in businesses that need to be near Nashville, but are not needed to be IN Nashville. If that makes sense. Her area is seeing a lot of growth of industry due to the proximity to Huntsville, Nashville, and Memphis. Many industries are finding the area a good location.
The public schools are taking note that the executives coming in to the area will be looking at schools for their children and are working to meet that demand.