Dad's passing was unexpected but yet expected...he "died" 3 years ago and was brought back, given a pacemaker and a defibrulator and went back to work full time with the state of Oregon at 80 years of age.
Next month he would have been 83 so we are so fortunate to have had these past 3 years with him. Being a single mom, he was the rock in my life and loved my boys more than life itself. This is the 1st loss that the boys and I have ever had to deal with and it's overwhelming. I hurt so badly for them and don't know how to help them thru this. A piece of my heart died last night.
As I look outside today I know that he is with me because the sun is shining for the 1st time in 2 weeks. He died in my mom's arms in the pouring down rain, thunder and ligthning last night and today the birds are chirping and the sun is glowing brighter than ever before.
He will be greatly missed.
Gina