We have been thinking about this for weeks and talking to the boys about it and ultimately have decided not to do it. The cost is just not worth it for the minimal (if any) enjoyment they would get.
When we went to Akerhaus a couple of years ago (maybe 3 yrs?) , they had no idea who any of the princesses were and it was just....... awkward. (The princesses were great and very nice to my boys, even held their hands and walked around w them for the princess parade. My boys just didn't have a clue LOL.) Last summer we had FP+ to meet Anna and Elsa, because they liked the movie and I wanted to meet them. It ended up being a bust. My older DS hid behind me the entire time and my younger DS just stood there frozen (pun intended!) and wouldn't say word.
For the longest time I've had it in my head that "we HAVE to eat in the castle". I've come to the realization that we don't! Why should I spend the money when it will be less then enjoyable for every one just to say we did it.
We've already been to BoG twice and been to all the Star Wars meals. This time we are going to try the Hoop Dee Doo Musical Review! It's something we've never done before, but I think it will be fun!
Thanks!