
maybe it's just me

but as a new bride the last thing i needed was allot of holiday themed items i would'nt be able to even begin to use for 10 months

i'de also be petrified that i would receive multiples of items i likely would have no practical use for (like personalized stockings).
i guess if i were invited to something like this i would REALY appreciate some guidance on what the tastes of the bride and groom were. are they into the 'ho-ho-ho santa' kind of stuff (not my taste-i prefer father christmas), the more 'refined' gold and cream colored decorations, the 'countryish' look?
even with that information i'de probably try to steer away from actual christmas themed items-my fear would be that if the person did'nt care for it or got a duplicate, even with a gift receipt, depending on close to the 25th the shower is held and if returns are'nt able to be made before the 25th- most stores won't refund more than 50% of the value (and some won't take any christmas themed items back after the 25th).
i went to a wedding held in a private home close to christmas. the tree was decorated with the same color ribboning and bulbs as the bride's wedding colors-accented with small white lights. very pretty.