we start buying in the summer (after 3 kids' birthdays) although I do put up little stuff right after Christmas the year before.
This year, we have very VERY VERY VERY little to work with. I SHOULD spend absolutely $0, because of prior debt (out of work for too long now). We are having to do some handing down, as gifts, although the recipients will be THRILLED. I am handing down my purple ipod nano to dd16. DD16 is handing down her silver ipod nano to dd11. DD11 has a 2 yr old shuffle, bought refurbished for $29. She will LOVE having a nano, hand-me-down or not.
They will get a few little things, but that's it. DD7 has asked for a dolly bunkbed for 3 yrs now. This year, I ordered one right after my garage sale in Sept -- not the American Girl $200 one, but a
Walmart one that was $34 AFTER shipping. It is put together, put up in my closet, and waiting.
DH and I will get each other nothing. Our anniversary is in January. I hope we can spend a little then.
On a normal year, I don't save money, I buy off a list for each kid starting really early. HOWEVER, our best Christmas we only spent between $75-150 per kid (not the same amount. We figure it all evens out by the time their childhoods end, lol).
When I worked at a large insurance company, we got a gainsharing check on 12/22 or 12/23 each year. I always ran out, cashed it, and it was my CHristmas budget. $500 or $1200, I didn't go over it. But had to shop at the last minute. Ahhhhhh, those were simpler days!