Chris Brown

[Missy1961]

Really?

Back in college, a guy said some incredibly rude things to my girlfriend (now wife), I beat him up pretty good and feel that my actions were perfectly justified.

I doubt the police or a jury would consider beating someone up when they said rude things to be justified. I know I don't.

 

[Missy1961]

That the kinda chick i am.. you hit me, you're getting 18 times worse and THEN i'm leaving. I plan on teaching DD the same thing- he better look worse than you do. CB hasn't run into the right woman yet. He will meet someone who isn't going to take it then he will really be in a rage.

I'm Sorry I'm really not trying to offend anyone. I just see things a little differently I'm not about to give RiRi the benefit of the doubt. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, mine is just different than many.

After reading that, I'm sitting here shaking my head. I believe in empowering women, but I think teaching your daughter that "he better look worse than you do" isn't wise. But go ahead, have your own opinion, I guess we can't change yours.

 

[Missy1961]

I find some of the opinions expressed here very disturbing. Especially in light of the nurse found murdered last week by her ex-cop estranged DH (New York).

So when the girl won't take it, and Chris has a real rage, then what???

I know, me too. I was thinking of that poor woman too.

 

[Anewman]

NOTHING a person says can justify being beat up. Nothing.

Really?

Back in college, a guy said some incredibly rude things to my girlfriend (now wife), I beat him up pretty good and feel that my actions were perfectly justified.

Just because YOU feel it is justified, does not make it so.
Many criminals feel their actions are justified, not saying what you did was criminal.. but I can direct you towards many cases from murder to petty theft where the criminal felt 100% justified.

 

[The Pink Cupcake]

Nope. My DH doesn't hit me because he knows there would be a bat across his head in return.

What a weird thing to say.

I would hope that your husband doesn’t hit you because he is a good and decent man that loves you

 

[The Pink Cupcake]

Really?

Back in college, a guy said some incredibly rude things to my girlfriend (now wife), I beat him up pretty good and feel that my actions were perfectly justified.

You beat someone badly due to their words? Be a man, and take your lady by the arm and walk away.

I would be so turned off if someone hurt another human b/c they said something rude. Who cares? They are words. Turn and walk away.

 

[ols386]

Would hate to see him on DWTS.......we have to stop encouraging bad behavior and paying them for it~

If he is on DWTS, who ever is his dancing partner, had better not step on his toes or look at him cross-eyed.

 

[DaParkers]

You beat someone badly due to their words? Be a man, and take your lady by the arm and walk away.

I would be so turned off if someone hurt another human b/c they said something rude. Who cares? They are words. Turn and walk away.

I agree. That was STUPID! My uncle was murdered defending his girlfriends "honor". A man called her a b-tch. My uncle confronted him about it and the man left. But, he came back and stabbed him in the chest once with a butcher knife. It happend when I was a kid, but I cry about it to this day. He lived with us when this happened. I remember seeing him leave and the next time I saw him, he was in a coffin. It isn't worth it.

 

[NEVERENOUGHWDW]

If he is on DWTS, who ever is his dancing partner, had better not step on his toes or look at him cross-eyed.

He is supposed to sing not dance.

 

[kimmar067]

dudes got some serious anger issues.

...just a tad.

 

[HonnyDipp]

Late night talk show hosts are LOVING this!

Cohan: "Chris Brown reportedly threw a chair and stormed out of the building
So I guess the news is Chris Brown is now dating a chair!"

Kimmel: "I guess he's not a morning person"

 

[snapppyd]

Late night talk show hosts are LOVING this!

Cohan: "Chris Brown reportedly threw a chair and stormed out of the building
So I guess the news is Chris Brown is now dating a chair!"

Kimmel: "I guess he's not a morning person"

Sorry, but

 

[sbell111]

Just because YOU feel it is justified, does not make it so.
Many criminals feel their actions are justified, not saying what you did was criminal.. but I can direct you towards many cases from murder to petty theft where the criminal felt 100% justified.

Do I help my wife with the kids in the morning if it will make me late for work?
Do I eat that bacon cheeseburger knowing that it is bad for my health?
Do I complete this very important project on time or that other one?
Do I buy an SUV even though it's 'bad for the planet'?
Do I buy an efficient car even though I will hate it?
Paper or plastic?
Ant or grasshopper?
Do I drive faster than the speed limit knowing that I might get a ticket?
Do I punch a guy knowing that I may have to later defend my actions?

Every time we make a decision, we have to weigh the positives and negatives of that decision. You disagree on that decision I made so many years ago, but I still feel very good about it and would have happily defended my actions in court if it came to that.

 

[DaParkers]

Do I help my wife with the kids in the morning if it will make me late for work?
Do I eat that bacon cheeseburger knowing that it is bad for my health?
Do I complete this very important project on time or that other one?
Do I buy an SUV even though it's 'bad for the planet'?
Do I buy an efficient car even though I will hate it?
Paper or plastic?
Ant or grasshopper?
Do I drive faster than the speed limit knowing that I might get a ticket?
Do I punch a guy knowing that I may have to later defend my actions?

Every time we make a decision, we have to weigh the positives and negatives of that decision. You disagree on that decision I made so many years ago, but I still feel very good about it and would have happily defended my actions in court if it came to that.

You're asking yourself the wrong questions.
Do I punch a guy knowing that I may get beat up or killed?

Do I drive faster than the speed limit knowing that I increase my chances of being in an accident?

 

[SaraJayne]

Wow I find your mindset horrifying and insane. I hope you never find yourself or loved one a victim of a violent relationship. Your statements are really sickening. I'm so disgusted

ETA: I can't imagine you'd feel the same way, if it were your daughter/son. So incredibly sickening.

I find it horrifying, too.

Her posts (blaming the victim) sound like a textbook abuse victim who believes it's her fault her partner beats the crap out of her.

 

[Queen2PrincessG]

Do I help my wife with the kids in the morning if it will make me late for work?
Do I eat that bacon cheeseburger knowing that it is bad for my health?
Do I complete this very important project on time or that other one?
Do I buy an SUV even though it's 'bad for the planet'?
Do I buy an efficient car even though I will hate it?
Paper or plastic?
Ant or grasshopper?
Do I drive faster than the speed limit knowing that I might get a ticket?
Do I punch a guy knowing that I may have to later defend my actions?

Every time we make a decision, we have to weigh the positives and negatives of that decision. You disagree on that decision I made so many years ago, but I still feel very good about it and would have happily defended my actions in court if it came to that.

And I find it more honorable than taking my arm and walking away.

 

[The Pink Cupcake]

And I find it more honorable than taking my arm and walking away.

I don’t find unnecessary violence honorable at all

Although you are the same woman that said your husband doesn’t hit you because you would hit him back. So I think we can all see what we are dealing with here

Because, again, I would hope that your husband doesn’t hit you because he is a good and decent man that loves you. You hitting him back shouldn't even enter his mind as a reason not to hit you. People should not be hitting, beating or attacking other people.

It is not normal.

 

[Queen2PrincessG]

I don’t find unnecessary violence honorable at all

Although you are the same woman that said your husband doesn’t hit you because you would hit him back. So I think we can all see what we are dealing with here

No, please explain your implication.

Would you rather hear he doesn't hit me because he loves me and respects me. Well obviously he does because we are married and why would I be with someone who doesn't. Let alone have a child with them?

Abusive men KNOW who they can abuse. Which is why you have women who say no he never hit me and some who claim constant abuse. IE OJ Simpson. He never hit his first wife. He did attack his second. Why is that? Which is why I say Chris Brown hasn't meet his match.

 

[The Pink Cupcake]

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IE OJ Simpson. He never hit his first wife. He did attack his second. Why is that?

It is because he is a horrible criminal. An awful person. That is why.

 

[Queen2PrincessG]

I don’t find unnecessary violence honorable at all

Although you are the same woman that said your husband doesn’t hit you because you would hit him back. So I think we can all see what we are dealing with here

Because, again, I would hope that your husband doesn’t hit you because he is a good and decent man that loves you. You hitting him back shouldn't even enter his mind as a reason not to hit you. People should not be hitting, beating or attacking other people.

It is not normal.

In a perfect world you are correct but that idea only empowers the bully. Which is what is going on in our society right now with our kids. Bullies aren't intimidated by walking away. If you fight back and then walk away it shows that you aren't going to stand for someone abusing you. You put them in their place and you walk away and don't return.

I guess I'm a minority, which is ok. I'm just not ok with the idea of letting people say or do what ever they want to me without fighting back.