Thank you for the feedback. I will look into some of the other restaurants that were suggested. I just can't see booking a "reception" for 5 people, so I think a nice dinner after the VR will be perfect. If I need to, we can just go off property.
We did a fine dining for our anniversary, it went great...and we only had to change 1 diaper! Also, when we go on cruises, our entire family sits through the entire meal, so, I think they are just use to it. Stuff like that just doesn't bother us. The other thing, our children are really good at meals, and if they ever were disturbing, I would immediately escort them out until they were behaving appropriately. There is only one way to teach your children things....let them experience them!