Tell me this, If we pay for our DDP and for DW, me + DD12 & DD11 we pay for (and we are paying-8/12-8/19), that's 38.99 ea/day, is it cheating if we get 7 SC, 7 CS, & 7 TS each but my DW and I use 8TS each and we pay OOP for a meal for the kids.
I'll be real interested if this is cheating or not.
I think it sounds like some people think that if you got in on the free deal and you do something funky (like use one of your child's credits for a TS) you are "cheating" the system.
I don't think so. I think it's being smart.
I find nothing wrong with paying OOP for half the meal, there is no rule against this. I don't think there really are any RULES to the DDP except those people have made up in their heads.
Whereas I believe Disney so considers this example "cheating" the system that they have now (editorial opinion: finally!) instituted measures to prevent it.
Instituted measures to prevent it and plainly stated in their brochure that it isn't allowed.
ACK! I'm thoroughly confused!!!

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think the original two posters were referring to "adult" kids' TS credits, not "kid" kids' TS credits. And I believe the OP was saying that one night they would pay OOP for their two "adult" kids (aged 11 and 12), thus saving 2 TS credits for another TS meal for mom and dad. Of course, then they'd have to pay for a second meal OOP for the girls.
The email I received from Disney regarding this stated: "Guests on the dining plan and sitting at a table in a table service restaurant are not required to use their dining credits for the meal. Guests may pay for the meal at the time of dining. If one Guest wishes to use a dining credit and the other Guest in the party wishes to order food and beverage and pay for it instead of using their dining credit, that is permitted." That is just an email that
I received, not printed anywhere in a brochure, but it looks like a cut and paste corporate "official" response. But according to that, then it's fine if one (or some) party members do not use their DDP credit for meal, and order ala carte off the menu instead, which would leave extra credits. People have talked about doing this if one of their party members is a very light eater, has had gastric bypass, are adult "kids" that are 10-14 years old and can't eat a full three course adult sized meal, etc.
However, I don't think they've stopped to calculate in the cost of paying for the extra meals for those folks -- because even if they are conserving a TS credit or two, they are still having to pay something for those meals because those members of their party still need to eat!
The things that are cheating the system are pretty cut and dry:
You can't use credits to purchase food for people who are not part of your party/on your package which includes the dining plan.
You can't use cheaper kids' credits to purchase adult meals. It's impossible now to do this with TS, and the CS meals are on an honor system. No matter what some CM's may have suggested, Disney is obviously trying to prevent this from happening at CS by limiting the number of adult and child meals purchased at one transaction to the number of adults and kids on your card. Whether or not it's
possible to do is beside the point. If you are having to get back in line to order additional adult meals with your kids' credits -- then yes, it is cheating, and everyone knows it is or they wouldn't be posting, "Is it ok to do this?" The kids' meals average $4.50, the adult meals average $12.50, and the kids' plan is $11.99 a day -- for CS, TS, AND snack. It's not hard to figure out that nifty "trick" isn't playing fair.
Whether or not you can order one adult TS meal and split it between two people is up in the air. The emails a couple of us have received have stated: "ordering one meal and sharing is not permitted with the dining plan." However, again, that's an email, and there is nothing in the printed material about this. And it seems like most restaurants and servers are fine with customers on the plan splitting meals -- because customers paying OOP are allowed to do so. Still a gray area -- and I would say you can always ask, but don't plan your entire budget and trip around that because they may say no.
As far as family/party members sharing items amongst themselves once the food is ordered and on the table -- ie mom and dad share their appetizers and desserts with their children, mom eats Junior's burger and he eats her steak, etc -- there doesn't seem to be any problem with that at all.
Any other scenarios you can think of?