My hubby took a white sheet and hung it at the door of our family room. He set up a card table with slow music and lots of candles. Almost like it was our own private restaurant. He made a wonderful 5 course meal with wine and had the kids serve it. (dressed as waiters/waitresses) They even filled the water glasses etc. They loved it. Then we went to our room and watched a movie. It was wonderful and certainly could be reversed. I planned a night for him. He was in class until 9 and was totally clueless. I made his favorite dessert and had soft music playing etc. I made a card that listed 100reasons I loved him. It was so fun and romantic thinking back over the years and coming up with the reasons. He loved it and even shed a tear or too! It really is the small things. So easy to do without spending much money.
That is so incredibly sweet.
I always make something on Valentine's Day, it is with my husband in mind, but also for the kids. We have 4 kids, I can't afford a babysitter and dinner on Valentine's Day! This year we will definitely be having chocolate fondue for dessert, my husband received a fondue set for his dirty Santa thing at work, we used it once and everyone loved it. This time I will go all out on the dippers. I am trying to decide on lasagna or cheese fondue for dinner. You can cut heart out of the lasagna noodles to make it cute(thanks, Pinterest). I am afraid that is too heavy of a dinner to have with a big dessert, but we have never had cheese fondue, what is we don't like it? I actually don't even know if my husband will be home on Valentine's Day, so I don't really know what to do.
As far as gift ideas, I usually make a card, this year I bought a gift, nothing too exciting, but a sweatshirt I bought for Christmas didn't fit, so I just kept it for myself. I owed him a sweatshirt anyway

. I also bought him a pin that says Beat Stanford. His Christmas Gift was a trip to the Notre Dame/Stanford game. Coupon books are nice. If he is a candy lover I really like the cards that put different candy bars on them as part of the wording.
Most years my gift is baking something that he loves but takes too long to do regularly, cheesecake or maple bars, etc.