My children are also 4 & 6. We'll also be in WDW in June for 7 nights & 8 days. Following are the character meals we currently have planned:
Liberty Tree Tavern dinner (arrival night - Tues)
[no character meals currently planned for Wed)
Crystal Palace lunch (Thurs)
Garden Grill lunch (Fri)
CRT lunch (Sat)
Donald's Breakfastasauras (Sun)
PSB breakfast (Mon)
Chef Mickey's breakfast (departure day - Tues)
The other sit-down meals we have planned are Mama Melrose's FDP (Wed), San Angel Inn dinner (Sun), & WCC dinner (Mon).
Even though we might get more "value" for our money w/ character meals at dinner, we like lunches because, if we begin touring the parks when they open, by lunchtime, we're ready for a nice break. Lunches don't seem to cut into our park time & resort time as much as dinners do - but that's just our experience; every family is different!
We prefer dinner at LTT to dinner at Crystal Palace & save Crystal Palace for lunch. Crystal Palace has a wonderful buffet w/ lots of yummy selections! LTT just feels more dinner-ish to me.
We're paying OOP for CRT because DH & I decided we didn't want to use 2 TS credits for it. We tried the CRT breakfast last year & wanted to try lunch this year. The princesses are at lunch, and children also receive swords & wands at lunch.
We tried dinner at PSB last year & really didn't prefer the food. We booked the dinner specifically to see Ariel too - who was my daughter's favorite last year. This year, we're trying breakfast which I think we'll enjoy more. We really hope to see Snow White - so, surely, between lunch at CRT & breakfast at PSB, we'll see her at least once!
Donald's Breakfastasauras is for our son who loves dinosaurs & to compensate a little for 2 princess meals - although he adores Snow White as much as DD. Hopefully, we'll also be able to book the rumored Toy Story meal as well. Pixie dust that the rumor will become reality in time for our trip!
We like having a really special breakfast on the morning of our departure - hence, breakfast at Chef Mickey's. (I have to have Mickey waffles on my last morning!)
I also like scheduling a really fun dinner for our last night which is why we're trying Whispering Canyon Cafe - it's not a character meal, but we like the time of food that's on the menu &, hopefully, we'll have fun w/ everything that goes on WCC! (Last year, we tried 'Ohana for dinner on our last night - which was also nice.)
Since you have kids, I recommend trying to reserve a Fantasmic Dinner Package if you plan to see Fantasmic at MGM so you don't have to wait as long to get good seats for the show. We didn't really like Hollywood & Vine last year, so, this year, we're trying Mama Melrose's.
We're eating at San Angel Inn for DH who has wanted to eat there since 1991! But another restaurant that we want to try at Epcot that looks fun for kids is Coral Reef.
Have fun deciding! One of my fav parts about planning our WDW trips is scheduling our meals!
