We're from the opposite camp. We wanted Early seating, both of my kids are usually out by 9PM and I'm usually not far behind them. None of us liked the thought of late seating, and we never cleared the waitlist. I decided to just stick with it, and go with the flow. If the kids couldn't do it, then there was roomservice, fast food from the pool places, the clubs, and the buffet to feed them. I wasn't going to let this ruin my vacation and wasn't going to fret whether it could or couldn't be changed, just go with the flow. Well, it turned out to be the BEST thing. We were all usually tired in the afternoon after all the sun, so we'd all take a small nap. We didn't have the rushed feeling getting ready for dinner (we had had early on 3 earlier cruises) and it truly was relaxed. Yeah, once both kids were a little cranky eating late and my 4YO slept through dinner once, but other than that it was a COMPLETE success. So much so, we booked late for our next cruise. We were complete early people before this experience and are now complete converts. We'd usually be done by 10PM and with the afternoon naps, could still stay up awhile. We got to take part in a lot of the later entertainment that we never did before with early seating. I'm not talking about the nightclubs, the family dance party in STudio Sea. My kids LOVED THEM and we also had a great time. It really turned this cruise into such a fun one for us. Try to think of ways to make it work, you most likely can and it might be a fabulous find, like what happened to us.